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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2010
    Krazyz1 wrote: »
    Miss conception gentlemen. That was my view in general as a YOUNG man , and certainly not concerning my wives. Surely I am not blameless. 1st wife wanted her freedom and not to answer to ANYONE. 2nd wife got involved in crack cocaine. I tried for almost 13 years of my life trying to get that situation straightened out and things put back together. Impossible when you could never get the truth to save your soul and the TRUST beyond repair. I just feel very fortunate to have my Linda.

    Don't sweat Bro. Brett is famous for speaking condescendingly making statements from a high horse and I say that lovingly.:D
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  • concealer404
    concealer404 Posts: 7,440
    edited February 2010
    Lasareath wrote: »
    Use a Sawzall to see what's inside!

    Ever Sawzalled a car dash in half? You think what's in THERE is complicated?
    I don't read the newsssspaperssss because dey aaaallllllllll...... have ugly print.

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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    Don't look at it as high horse Joe......just look at it as my being right all the time.......

    I don't 'know', but i sympathize with your point of view from being beneath me......hahaha

    You see your wife's stuff as 'there's no manual' situations but your reactions are only human..........why does that give you a pass on douchery and not extend to the wife as well? You want to hold her accountable for irrationality, but for yours it's your 'human' side.........POV needs to be adjusted, no?
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  • concealer404
    concealer404 Posts: 7,440
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    Don't look at it as high horse Joe......just look at it as my being right all the time.......

    I don't 'know', but i sympathize with your point of view from being beneath me......hahaha

    You see your wife's stuff as 'there's no manual' situations bu tyour reactions are only human..........why does that give you a pass on douchery and not extend to the wife as well? You want to hold her accountable for irrationality, but for yours it's your 'human' side.........POV needs to be adjusted, no?

    You mistakenly assume that women are "human."


    :p
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  • Knucklehead
    Knucklehead Posts: 3,602
    edited February 2010
    The trick is, is to know your wife better than she knows herself. No surprises here.
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  • Krazyz1
    Krazyz1 Posts: 256
    edited February 2010
    Mr. brettw22. Seriously with respect what is your occupation. You seem to have some good feel for what the feminine emotion is all about with some good insight. Have you ever considered counseling others. Seems your at a advantage of having a good grip on emotions from both sides of the fence.
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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2010
    Knucklehead wrote: »
    You have to find your compasionate side quick fast and in a hurry. You guys didnt receive your 6th sense when you got married?

    Yeah, I see dead people.:D
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    Krazyz1 wrote: »
    Mr. brettw22. Seriously with respect what is your occupation. You seem to have some good feel for what the feminine emotion is all about with some good insight. Have you ever considered counseling others. Seems your at a advantage of having a good grip on emotions from both sides of the fence.
    First of all, the feminine emotion comment had better not be a **** joke.........:p:p

    I'm always counseling people......friends, family, whatever.....but no, I'm not a therapist.

    EDIT: Added smileys......
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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    Don't look at it as high horse Joe......just look at it as my being right all the time.......

    I don't 'know', but i sympathize with your point of view from being beneath me......hahaha

    You see your wife's stuff as 'there's no manual' situations but your reactions are only human..........why does that give you a pass on douchery and not extend to the wife as well? You want to hold her accountable for irrationality, but for yours it's your 'human' side.........POV needs to be adjusted, no?

    As I said, I'm no angel but I do know my shortcomings. That's why I posted this thread to get other's takes on the now resolved issue.
    brettw22 wrote: »
    I don't 'know', but i sympathize with your point of view from being beneath me......hahaha

    :eek::eek::eek::D
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    relax joe, you're nothing near my type.....lol.....
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  • concealer404
    concealer404 Posts: 7,440
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    First of all, the feminine emotion comment had better not be a **** joke.........

    I'm always counseling people......friends, family, whatever.....but no, I'm not a therapist.

    I don't think he knew, Brett... :)
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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    First of all, the feminine emotion comment had better not be a **** joke.........

    I'm always counseling people......friends, family, whatever.....but no, I'm not a therapist.

    From where I sit, you could use a little counseling yourself!:cool: They've made great strides in the psychoanalysis field quelling superiority complexes.:D
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  • Krazyz1
    Krazyz1 Posts: 256
    edited February 2010
    Not meant as a joke. More as a compliment being it is a very hard issue to understand the feminine spirit. It is very complicated. I meant it as a COMPLIMENT!!! It's great that you are willing to get involved and try to make a difference. Kudos for you.
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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    relax joe, you're nothing near my type.....lol.....

    Why not I'm a hot blooded sexy Italian guy!:p Or so I've been told by hundreds of women!:eek::D
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    i know you're hot blooded.....I've addressed that with you plenty over the years here......lol....

    Sexy? eye of the beerholder, right?
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    Krazyz1 wrote: »
    Not meant as a joke. More as a compliment being it is a very hard issue to understand the feminine spirit. It is very complicated. I meant it as a COMPLIMENT!!! It's great that you are willing to get involved and try to make a difference. Kudos for you.
    People like to say they're over analytical this and over analytical that, but what they often fail to analyze is themselves.
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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    i know you're hot blooded.....i've addressed that with you plenty over the years here......lol....

    sexy? Eye of the beerholder, right?

    waaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
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  • Krazyz1
    Krazyz1 Posts: 256
    edited February 2010
    By no means am I perfect. As long as I have enough brain cells left to understand that and willing to make change. That's the best I can do. As the old adage says...Walk a mile in my shoes and it's funny how your perspective may change.
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  • John30_30
    John30_30 Posts: 1,024
    edited February 2010
    Jesus: First remove the beam in thine own eye, then help thy neighbor with the splinter in his.

    brettw22: People like to say they're over analytical this and over analytical that, but what they often fail to analyze is themselves.

    Moe Howard: Hold still, Porcupine. This won't hurt me a bit!


    fixed. Absolutely right, brett. Somewhere between Jesus and Moe Stooge. :-)
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    i'm not saying I'm not quoteworthy, but you might want to put my quote below Jesus'.......lol......
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  • Krazyz1
    Krazyz1 Posts: 256
    edited February 2010
    Clue me in. Why does it say banned under hearingimpaired?????????
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    He's been apparently banned for behavior in other threads.......not this one....
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  • shack
    shack Posts: 11,154
    edited February 2010
    Well...now he has time to work on his relationship issues instead wasting his time here.

    brettw22 wrote:
    He's been apparently banned for behavior in other threads.......not this one....

    Yeah, I read that thread. It didn't take long since most of the posters are on my ignore list...
    "Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean you’re right." - Ricky Gervais

    "For those who believe, no proof is necessary. For those who don't believe, no proof is possible." - Stuart Chase

    "Consistency requires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago." - Bernard Berenson
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  • Krazyz1
    Krazyz1 Posts: 256
    edited February 2010
    Thank you.
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    lol shack.....but they had make-up sex and all was better again........
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  • shack
    shack Posts: 11,154
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote:
    lol shack.....but they had make-up sex and all was better again........

    Now they can take it to the next level...;)
    "Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean you’re right." - Ricky Gervais

    "For those who believe, no proof is necessary. For those who don't believe, no proof is possible." - Stuart Chase

    "Consistency requires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago." - Bernard Berenson
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  • John30_30
    John30_30 Posts: 1,024
    edited February 2010
    brettw22 wrote: »
    i'm not saying I'm not quoteworthy, but you might want to put my quote below Jesus'.......lol......


    fixed, and absolutely right, brett. Somewhere between the wisdom of Jesus and Moe Stooge, art thou.:D Nyuk,nyuk, nyuk!

    Jesus: First remove the beam in thine own eye, then help thy neighbor with the splinter in his.

    brettw22: People like to say they're over analytical this and over analytical that, but what they often fail to analyze is themselves.

    Moe Howard: Hold still, Porcupine. This won't hurt me a bit!
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  • Krazyz1
    Krazyz1 Posts: 256
    edited February 2010
    Carry on gentlemen. I am going to take some pain meds , and in about 20 min. be more worthless than normal! LOL
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited February 2010
    John, either your suffering from alzheimers, or you're just wanting to up your post count........lol.......(I saw your edit on page 5)....
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  • maximillian
    maximillian Posts: 2,144
    edited February 2010
    Knucklehead wrote: »
    The trick is, is to know your wife better than she knows herself. No surprises here.

    If only it was so simple... Didn't Einstein say, "I want to know woman's thoughts.... the rest are details".
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