Never buy a House (with someone else!)

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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    brettw22 wrote:
    Good Lord Darla......you don't have to get TOOO friendly with the people here.....even I hold back more.....lol

    Sorry.
    just a little trip down memory lane.:p
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  • mrbigbluelight
    mrbigbluelight Posts: 9,668
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    And for you doubters. That is me with my beloved Sofie.


    1. Per Danger Boy, yes that is a cute picture. Cute little doggie. :)
    2. You yourself are quite the charming young lady, in both your picture
    and your posts.
    (this cleaned up version was provided by lessons taught by MrNightly :) )
    3. If that Sofie were a cat, well.......


    .....okay, lemme make a substitution on #3.

    3. Being single isn't so bad. The fear of losing what you have, no matter how
    bad it is, may be controlling your decision. That's not crazy, that's what
    they call being human. Getting up to look behind the curtain into the
    unknown takes some courage, but you'll do it.
    Also, sometimes people hate to "not finish what they start". You entered
    your relationship, with some idea(s) as to where you would like it to lead.
    It isn't heading there, apparently. You, not being a lazy slackjaw, have
    taken up the challenge to make it work. I'd say you've more than supplied
    enough effort. Nothing wrong with stepping back and saying, "Aw, crap !
    That didn't work out like I thought and hoped it would." Doesn't mean
    you're a loser, doesn't mean you're crazy, what it means is: Welcome to
    the human race. You tried, gave it your best shot, and didn't come in
    first.

    Final piece of million dollar advice (I'm declaring this on my taxes once I file):
    Everybody has choices to make in life, including your roommate.
    If it is your choice to leave, she has the choice to make of accepting your choice (with regrets, of course) or not accepting it and taking longer to become the person she needs to/wants to become.

    Your choice to make, make it ,and truly wish the other person well in the choices she has to make.
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  • F1nut
    F1nut Posts: 50,434
    edited July 2006
    Whew, time for another smoke!
    Political Correctness'.........defined

    "A doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media, which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a t-u-r-d by the clean end."

    President of Club Polk

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  • TroyD
    TroyD Posts: 13,077
    edited July 2006
    Hey, what did I miss??

    BDT
    I plan for the future. - F1Nut
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  • petrym
    petrym Posts: 1,912
    edited July 2006
    Wow, this thread changed a bit over the last time I looked at it...

    Darla, I can't tell you what to do, matters of the heart are the toughest to deal with, but you have to put yourself ahead of anything financial. Does your cop shop have professional (hopefully external) counseling available?

    Michael
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    If it is your choice to leave, she has the choice to make of accepting your choice (with regrets, of course) or not accepting it and taking longer to become the person she needs to/wants to become.

    Your choice to make, make it ,and truly wish the other person well in the choices she has to make.
    ________________

    Confucious say: "Man who post silly cat pictures possesses great wisdom."

    Thanks:)
    Does your cop shop have professional (hopefully external) counseling available?

    Yes it does but if it's nt work related they are not really interested...Hell..even if it is work related they don't really care.
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  • unc2701
    unc2701 Posts: 3,587
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    And for you doubters. That is me with my beloved Sofie.


    Awwww... Cute! I have a rat terrier that looks just like her. Anyhow, if you come to NC, I know tons of guys who'd love to meet you... and more than a few girls, too. You don't wnat to be a cop in Durham, but Cary isn't bad at all!
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    Thanks. I love Rat Terriers. I actually have two....Sofie and Dexter.
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  • petrym
    petrym Posts: 1,912
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    ...even if it is work related they don't really care.
    Lovely... (sends a virtual smack to the "counseling" dipsticks)

    I wish you the best; just please remember that you have to take care of you first. Everything else doesn't matter - 'cept taking care o' the HT gear! ;););)

    Cute pic of you and your doggie!
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    Thanks:)
    petrym wrote:
    Lovely... (sends a virtual smack to the "counseling" dipsticks)
    Even after my shooting they were less than helpful.

    I wish you the best; just please remember that you have to take care of you first. Everything else doesn't matter - 'cept taking care o' the HT gear! ;););)
    That IS the most important thing!:D
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  • disneyjoe7
    disneyjoe7 Posts: 11,435
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    Thanks. I love Rat Terriers. I actually have two....Sofie and Dexter.



    PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER....

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  • petrym
    petrym Posts: 1,912
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    Even after my shooting they were less than helpful.
    I hope you didn't get shot! :eek: Are you okay?
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  • dragon1952
    dragon1952 Posts: 4,899
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    Guys. I am so messed up with this situation....AND I am thoroughly confused. I am sitting here in my beautiful back yard by the pool with my dogs and really wondering if I should give this another shot.....Also...I have a slight confession to make which may put a different spin on things and I hope that you guys don't get PO'd at me but in the interest of keeping things simple on this board and avoiding any hate (like I have seen some here receive)I said that the **** was a he when it's really...well not. It's a chick.


    Don't go away folks! Stay tuned for another exciting episode of "As the Wingnut Turns" :eek:
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  • brettw22
    brettw22 Posts: 7,624
    edited July 2006
    Dragon keep up........she 'turned' a long time ago....... :D
    comment comment comment comment. bitchy.
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  • dragon1952
    dragon1952 Posts: 4,899
    edited July 2006
    I know...I know. I'm trying to keep up. ****, I must have missed like 5 episodes there.
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    Just wait until the cliffhanger!:eek:
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    petrym wrote:
    I hope you didn't get shot! :eek: Are you okay?


    Yes thanks, I am ok..tha other guy is not looking so good though.
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  • disneyjoe7
    disneyjoe7 Posts: 11,435
    edited July 2006
    Wingnut4772,

    Need a HUG? If so standby I drive down turnpike....
    I have some law enforce people friends so I'm safe :)

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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited July 2006
    Absolutely adorable dogs Darla!:D And you're not so bad lookin yourself!;)

    Just listen to & follow your instincts & take care of yourself.
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  • PolkThug
    PolkThug Posts: 7,532
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    :p:p:p deleted

    Dang it! I think I missed something good here. :confused:
    Never Forget
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  • jcaut
    jcaut Posts: 1,849
    edited July 2006
    It's twice as good in your imagination..:)







    I missed it too. The ability to delete is a good thing, though. Especially for people like me who occasionally let their fingers get ahead of their brain..

    Anyway, best of luck, Darla! I don't have any advice, but I know you'll get things worked out.

    Jason
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    cfrizz wrote:
    Absolutely adorable dogs Darla!:D And you're not so bad lookin yourself!;)

    Just listen to & follow your instincts & take care of yourself.

    Thanks Cathy:) My intincts right now are saying 'you have an ulcer'.:eek:
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  • petrym
    petrym Posts: 1,912
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    Yes thanks, I am ok..tha other guy is not looking so good though.
    Ok, I did a search and found that you pounded the other dude... whew. I guess I gotta read *all* the posts to keep up with "As the Polkies Turn." :)
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  • mrbigbluelight
    mrbigbluelight Posts: 9,668
    edited July 2006
    disneyjoe7 wrote:
    PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER.... PULL OVER....

    disneyjoe7 was FUNNY !


    :D
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    mrbigbluelight wrote:
    disneyjoe7 was FUNNY !


    :D

    Oh yeah. I cracked up big time at that one.LOL!:D Thanks for the laughs guys.
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  • Grimster74
    Grimster74 Posts: 2,570
    edited July 2006
    Darla, I have to ask, have you always lived in the south, if so, do you have a TWIN sister that lives in Virginia. I'd be willing to put my paycheck on it that I found your twin in the Fredericksburg area. I used to hang out with some guys a few years back and one of them dated a girl that looks identical to you. Just curious.
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited July 2006
    You know it's funny but I get that all the time. Nope. No sisters - that I know about -:eek: but I have tons of extended family that I don't even know about . My mom's biological father probably has family somewhere so who knows? You can send your paycheck to my Paypal account.:D
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  • madmax
    madmax Posts: 12,434
    edited July 2006
    wingnut4772 wrote:
    Just wait until the cliffhanger!:eek:



    Oh no! Don't hang Cliff!!! :eek:
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    Avantgarde horns, 300b tubes, thats the kinda crap I want... :D
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  • BlueMDPicker
    BlueMDPicker Posts: 7,569
    edited July 2006
    I need a joint. I started smoking again three pages ago. :cool:
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  • disneyjoe7
    disneyjoe7 Posts: 11,435
    edited July 2006
    Oh god she is a COP

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