Sad News

schwarcw
schwarcw Posts: 7,335
edited December 2006 in The Clubhouse
Early this morning I received news that most of us regrettably get in some form or another once during a lifetime. My mother passed away during the night. Her death was sudden and somewhat unexpected. Mom was 80 years old, physically frail and was dependent upon a wheelchair for mobility. She has been living in a personal care facility for the past 4 ½ years. She had her wits about her. She was sometimes forgetful and occasionally repeated herself, but was still very engaged in her life. She accompanied my family to my brother’s house last week for Thanksgiving. We had a wonderful time with the entire family. That was the last time I saw and spoke to her.

Since my father passed away 9 years ago my mom struggled with loneliness at times. My father and mom were inseparable. They did everything together. Oh they had their moments of trouble in their relationship as all couples do, but most of all they were happy together. My parents were part of the “Greatest Generation” of Americans. They saw it all beginning with the Great Depression during their childhood, World War II, the post war boom, steady work for a modest income, family and grandchildren. I like to think they are together now in a better place.

There were moments today when I was overcome with grief. I ask you not to grieve with me, but to celebrate their life. Join me in praying and giving thanks to parents everywhere. After all, we wouldn’t be here without them.

Attached is a recent picture of Doris Jane Schwartz (1926 – 2006). RIP.
Carl

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  • HBombToo
    HBombToo Posts: 5,256
    edited December 2006
    I hope my children will remember me in that same light.

    May God Rest

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  • audiobliss
    audiobliss Posts: 12,518
    edited December 2006
    It's sad and joyful at the same time to hear that news.

    You and your family will be in my prayers, and I will have a renewed sense of appreciation for my parents.
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  • phoneisbusy
    phoneisbusy Posts: 867
    edited December 2006
    My condolences and prayers for the passing of your mother.

    regards

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  • RuSsMaN
    RuSsMaN Posts: 17,987
    edited December 2006
    Amen Henry.

    I raise a glass to Doris, here here.

    Thoughts and prayers to follow.

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  • danger boy
    danger boy Posts: 15,722
    edited December 2006
    Carl, sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. Always remember her and your father fondly.

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  • janmike
    janmike Posts: 6,146
    edited December 2006
    My deepest condolences Carl. As I always say when a loved one passes away, “I was fortunate enough to know them and know them close.” RIP Mrs. S.
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  • Frank Z
    Frank Z Posts: 5,860
    edited December 2006
    All to often we wish to be respectful and offer our deepest sympathies when a family member or close friend passes away. Your request that we not grieve is thoughtful and shows not only love, but respect and fond remembrance.

    Deb and I both send our regards and join you in celebrating her life. She's moved on and is kicking up her heels with your dad again. She's happier now than she's been in a long time....and we're happy for her and your father too. They are together again.

    God Bless.

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  • cindy100
    cindy100 Posts: 256
    edited December 2006
    My condolences to you and your family.

    Sincerely,

    Cindy
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  • Normanality
    Normanality Posts: 297
    edited December 2006
    Very sorry for your loss Carl.

    Agreed, very thankful for our parents and what they gave to us.
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  • Libertyc
    Libertyc Posts: 915
    edited December 2006
    Sorry to hear about your great loss. My condolences to you and your family.
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  • organ
    organ Posts: 4,969
    edited December 2006
    So sorry to hear that, Carl.
    Just think about the great life she lived. She's in a better place enjoying your father's company now.
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  • DarqueKnight
    DarqueKnight Posts: 6,765
    edited December 2006
    I am very sorry to learn of your loss Carl. I offer my condolences to you and your family.
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  • halo
    halo Posts: 5,616
    edited December 2006
    Very sorry for your loss Carl.

    Prayers sent.

    Thoughts are with you and your family.

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  • candyliquor35m
    candyliquor35m Posts: 2,267
    edited December 2006
    Prayers and condolences. As much as you prepare for this, it's still tough. I lost my mom Nov 18, 2000 and she was 80 also and had suffered many strokes.
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  • F1nut
    F1nut Posts: 50,428
    edited December 2006
    Carl,

    Thank you for sharing a little of your mom with us and for your words of wisdom. They really are the “Greatest Generation” of Americans and have my utmost respect.

    God Bless,
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  • SCompRacer
    SCompRacer Posts: 8,480
    edited December 2006
    Carl,

    Dana, Irene and I express our heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mother.


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  • Danny Tse
    Danny Tse Posts: 5,206
    edited December 2006
    Sorry about the loss of your mother. My condolences to you and your family.
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  • Polk65
    Polk65 Posts: 1,405
    edited December 2006
    Carl, Your Mom is in our collective thoughts. They say our elders perk up a little bit before going to the next level. My uncle did this. I'm glad you all had the chance to share time with her again. Steve
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited December 2006
    Very sorry to read this. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. You're a wonderful son. :)
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited December 2006
    I'm sorry to hear of your loss, just remeber we'll all be together in the end.
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  • ESavinon
    ESavinon Posts: 3,066
    edited December 2006
    Carl, My deepest condolences to you and your wonderful family.
    Now, i understand that you may be in alot of pain but think of death in this context if you can:

    Death is by no means the end but a transition to a different plane.
    She is now in the company of her husband,parents and all her loved ones that have passed.
    Feel happy for the life she led,the family she raised and the memories she left.
    Although she may be far, she will always be near those she loved.
    Never remember the death. only the life,the love and the moments spent together.
    May god bless you and your family.
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  • MSALLA
    MSALLA Posts: 1,602
    edited December 2006
    My condolences. At 80 years old she must have seen and had the opertunity to enjoy so much in life.
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  • Mike Reeter
    Mike Reeter Posts: 4,315
    edited December 2006
    Carl,I'm very sorry for your loss...Sounds like your Mother was a remarkable woman...may she rest in peace...our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
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  • okiepolkie
    okiepolkie Posts: 2,258
    edited December 2006
    Let us know if you need anything Carl. I'll be praying for your family.
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  • BlueMDPicker
    BlueMDPicker Posts: 7,569
    edited December 2006
    Best regards Carl and family.
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  • george daniel
    george daniel Posts: 12,096
    edited December 2006
    Carl, you and your family are in my prayers, God bless
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  • heiney9
    heiney9 Posts: 25,160
    edited December 2006
    Sorry for your loss, good thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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  • George Grand
    George Grand Posts: 12,258
    edited December 2006
    I'm so sorry for your loss Carl. RIP Mrs. Schwartz, and thanks for being part of the generation that set such a fine example for us.
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  • Maurice
    Maurice Posts: 517
    edited December 2006
    I'm very sorry for your loss. I can relate because my dad passed Oct. 1st, and was 89. It can be tough but try to focus on the fond memories rather than how much you will miss her. Stay strong.
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  • zombie boy 2000
    zombie boy 2000 Posts: 6,641
    edited December 2006
    Very sorry to hear of your loss Carl. Prayers and thoughts to you and yours during this difficult time. If anything, take solace in the wonderful times you shared together and that not only was your mom a very special person, but she raised a very special person as well.

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