My wife could use some prayers please

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  • machone
    machone Posts: 1,510
    So sorry to hear this. You have my prayers.
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  • msg
    msg Posts: 10,118
    Prayers and hope coming your way, Billy. Keeping you all in my thoughts. What a pair of fighters you both are. And we're all with you, now too.
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  • treitz3
    treitz3 Posts: 19,123
    Threads like this are always a little hard to swallow and respond too. Don't think about losing her at this point. There have been some serious strides in Cancer treatment since we were growing up.

    Let me offer you some uplifting facts...

    My cousin had Cancer when he was 9 years old. He had it bad. I forget all of the particulars but it was so bad that the family got notification to say our last goodbye's. My aunt and uncle had already picked out his grave and were in the funeral planning stages.

    He survived and went on to prosper.

    About a decade ago, that same cousin notified the family that he had Cancer once again. Once again, stage 4. In his "boys", armpits and about 4 or 5 other places throughout his body. It sounded really, really bad and we once again braced ourselves for the worst.

    He's now pushing close to 50 years old and is as healthy as can be. My point is, it may seem bad...like, really bad with no hope. Let me assure you that both you and her need to keep that hope. Tell her with full confidence (even if you have some reservations) to keep fighting and to not lose faith that she can beat this. Many things concerning health can be affected by a mental state (IMO/IME) and you do not want her to mentally give up!

    With that said, prayers sent and best of wishes for a relatively quick and full recovery. Take care of yourself during all of this and try to keep your head high. Not only for yourself, but for her as well.

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  • Gerres26
    Gerres26 Posts: 864
    Prayers sent her way…and yea F*** cancer!
  • dkfreebird
    dkfreebird Posts: 1,186
    Prayers sent to you and your family.
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  • aprazer402
    aprazer402 Posts: 3,149
    Praying for her! These times are tough, stay strong.
  • SCompRacer
    SCompRacer Posts: 8,504
    Prayers for your wife. My wife is a two time breast cancer survivor.
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  • Kex
    Kex Posts: 5,200
    Devastating to read this but hoping to read much better news soon. Everything else seems so trivial and meaningless in comparison. Nothing else matters. We never appreciate what we have until we are faced with the possibility of losing it.

    Stay strong and cherish every minute. Take care of yourself too. It’s important!
    Alea jacta est!
  • Kex
    Kex Posts: 5,200
    P.S. Some great replies in this thread. Thank you to everyone who contributed. 🙏
    Alea jacta est!
  • GlennDog
    GlennDog Posts: 3,120
    Stay strong and . . . Prayers sent!
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  • gmcman
    gmcman Posts: 1,806
    edited April 2023
    Very sorry to hear this, prayers sent.

    My mom had a similiar issue a few years back, mass from lungs went to her brain, they had to remove a walnut size mass from her brain. Back and forth with treatments she has pulled through, which is something that helps me believe your prayers can be answered.


    My mom is very stubborn which didn't help her with the doctors orders on her diet after her 1st treatment/surgery...lots of snacking and carbs/sugars during treatment until they finally told her....well... either or...that changed her a bit..lol.

    She has gone "slightly" more keto which had helped but not everyone responds the same so it's definitely something you have to discuss with your doctors.

    Just throwing that out in hope's that anything may help.

    God bless and we will continue to pray for both you and your family and friends.

  • indyhawg
    indyhawg Posts: 1,642
    So sorry to hear. Prayers sent.
  • Joey_V
    Joey_V Posts: 8,563
    Geez
    Best wishes man, I hope you have the success we all want you guys to have.
    I’m not much help, I don’t know the prognosis of metastatic cancer to the brain, but it seems like there is some fight according to the docs otherwise they wouldn’t even proceed with the craniotomy.
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  • Jetmaker737
    Jetmaker737 Posts: 1,048
    I can't imagine what you're going through. Makes my head spin to think about my wife having to endure this. Sounds like there's definitely a fighting chance like some others have pointed out. I sincerely wish for you guys to stay strong, keep fighting and stay hopeful.
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  • audioluvr
    audioluvr Posts: 5,601
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  • Jazzhead
    Jazzhead Posts: 533
    So sorry you guys are having to experience this. Hoping for the best.
  • ken brydson
    ken brydson Posts: 8,772
    edited April 2023
    So sorry to hear. I know 1st hand that cancer is a cruel biotch. So many advances in medicine these days. Prayers, vibes, and juju sent to you and your wife
  • westmassguy
    westmassguy Posts: 6,850
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  • engtaz
    engtaz Posts: 7,663
    Prayers sent
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  • Willow
    Willow Posts: 11,040
    Thoughts are with you and family. Not an easy situation to deal with.
  • pumpkinman
    pumpkinman Posts: 9,877
    I’m so very sorry. You have our thoughts and prayers.

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  • DaveHo
    DaveHo Posts: 3,534
    Praying for you.
  • TEAforONE
    TEAforONE Posts: 1,026
    edited April 2023
    I’m praying for everyone involved. May the Lord God touch and comfort your wife and yourself. It’s what he does best. Trust in him.
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  • simm
    simm Posts: 569
    So sorry to hear about this. Prayers for her and your family.
  • polrbehr
    polrbehr Posts: 2,834
    Prayers and positive thoughts for both of you. Keep the faith.
    So, are you willing to put forth a little effort or are you happy sitting in your skeptical poo pile?


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  • rooftop59
    rooftop59 Posts: 8,121
    Lord have mercy…
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  • vmaxer
    vmaxer Posts: 5,117
    Thanks for all the responses. We do appreciate the prayers.
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  • SIHAB
    SIHAB Posts: 4,955
    Terrible news. Prayers on the way.
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  • Rich502
    Rich502 Posts: 146
    So sorry to hear, praying for you and your family. Stay strong for her.