My wife could use some prayers please

vmaxer
vmaxer Posts: 5,117
Hey everyone,

My wife could really use your prayers, she has been diagnosed with cancer.

She survived breast cancer with a double mastectomy in 2020, long hard road but got through it.

She has been having headaches for a while and they got really bad and she was constantly throwing up in March so I took her to the doctor on 3/21/23, She got some medicine and sent home.

On 3/23/23 she called me and said she needed to go to the emergency room. They did a CT scan of her head and found swelling on her brain. She was flown to Vanderbilt in Nashville where a lot more testing was done.

They found a mass on the lower back of her brain. On 3/28/23 she had surgery to remove the mass on her brain. During this time we were told she had a mass on one of her lungs as well. She was discharged on April 3.

She did well that night but started sleeping a lot the next 2 days. I got concerned and called the neurologist and they said she needed to be checked out and I could use a local hospital instead of driving over 2 hours.

The local hospital checked her out and discussed everything with the doctors at Vanderbilt. She was transferred via ambulance this time.

They ran more CT scans and found the mass in her lung had doubled in size and was spreading.

Once we got the pathology report back it was determined that the mass from her brain had spread from her lungs. .

She has non small cell lung cancer. She will start chemotherapy and radiation next week. We have basically been in the hospital since 3/23/23, except for 2 nights at home.

I havenโ€™t left her side the whole time and itโ€™s an extremely hard situation to deal with.

I love her and canโ€™t imagine losing her, I would rather go.

Any, please pray for her.

Thank you,

Billy


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  • vmaxer
    vmaxer Posts: 5,117
    The cancer is stage 4, they told me any time it spreads from one part of the body to another itโ€™s stage 4.
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  • pitdogg2
    pitdogg2 Posts: 25,553
    edited April 2023
    You got it Billy! Prayers incoming!!
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  • Milito
    Milito Posts: 1,960
    Both of you are in our prayers. Stay strong for her.
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  • tratliff
    tratliff Posts: 1,702
    Billy thatโ€™s tough. My thoughts are with your wife and you.
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  • F1nut
    F1nut Posts: 50,645
    Damn Billy, sorry to hear such bad news about the one you love. More ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
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  • agfrost
    agfrost Posts: 2,430
    Praying for you both, Billy.
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  • schwarcw
    schwarcw Posts: 7,338
    Prayers for your wife's health struggles. Prayer for you Billy and your family!
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  • Tony M
    Tony M Posts: 11,159
    edited April 2023
    Sorry to hear about her condition and the tough fight she's been fighting.

    May GOD give you and her peace and strength for the coming years.

    I'm glad to hear you are able to be by her side every day to keep comforting her.

    Prayers coming your way.
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  • daddyjt
    daddyjt Posts: 2,547
    F@ck cancer. Pulling for you wifeโ€ฆ I sincerely hope things get better for her.
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  • nooshinjohn
    nooshinjohn Posts: 25,445
    May God bless you and make you strong in body, mind and spirit as you stand with her during this struggle, and may His healing hand rest upon her and make her whole once again.

    I will keep you and your beloved in my thoughts and prayers โ€ฆ
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  • JayCee
    JayCee Posts: 1,500
    So sorry. Healing thoughts sent your way.
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  • jbreezy5
    jbreezy5 Posts: 1,141
    Praying!!! ๐Ÿ™
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    audioluvr Posts: 5,598
    Praying for her!
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  • motorstereo
    motorstereo Posts: 2,141
    I'm so sorry to read this sad news. Praying for both of you.
  • pearsall001
    pearsall001 Posts: 5,091
    Prayers & thoughts for your wife & yourself ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ™
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  • NotaSuv
    NotaSuv Posts: 3,854
    Prayers sent from our family
    to you and yours
  • Gardenstater
    Gardenstater Posts: 4,501
    God bless and keep the hope alive ๐Ÿ™
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  • mhardy6647
    mhardy6647 Posts: 33,894
    you betcha!
    Your dedication to your wife is inspiring.
  • Toolfan66
    Toolfan66 Posts: 17,294
    Prayers Sent!! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ˜ข
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  • HzTweaker
    HzTweaker Posts: 788
    F@cq Cancer! Prayers sent.
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  • txcoastal1
    txcoastal1 Posts: 13,300
    Thoughts and prayers for your wife and family, Billy <3
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  • BlueBirdMusic
    BlueBirdMusic Posts: 2,304
    Our Father, please hear all of these prayers for a beloved family member of our brother vmaxer, and give him strength in life.
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  • Keiko
    Keiko Posts: 764
    edited April 2023
    Father God, in Jesus Name we lift Billy's wife up to you in prayer and we declare and we believe that You can and that You will and already have healed her. Jesus, Your Name above all names, including cancer.

    We believe You and Your Word, Heavenly Father and we know that Your Word is true and faithful. We know that You are the Lord our God, there is no other and that you cannot lie, Father.

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    Let us all come into agreement now and believe for Billy's wife's healing. In Jesus Name! And we thank you for it, Lord. Amen!

    Now, the devil's going to try to come in here immediately and try to sow seeds of doubt. Don't believe him. The devil is a liar! Believe in God and in His power. Let us all continue in prayer for this little gal and for the peace of God to be upon her, Billy and this family. Walk by faith and believe in the power of God and of the Holy Spirit. He's the God of miracles and is still in the business of doing them. All He asks us to do is believe.

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    God bless, bro. Will be keeping you in prayer and I'm believing in God for your wife's healing.
  • So sad to read this. I know how tough cancer can be. We're all pulling for her to beat it again!
  • SeleniumFalcon
    SeleniumFalcon Posts: 3,831
    Absolutely, stay strong and we're all thinking of you and your wife, Billy.
  • tonyb
    tonyb Posts: 32,981
    Consider the prayer part done. Anything we can do, anything you need ? A positive outcome for your wife, and you, will be in my prayers.
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  • tophatjohnny
    tophatjohnny Posts: 4,182
    Our family will keep your wife and you in our prayers! ๐Ÿ™
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  • Dabutcher
    Dabutcher Posts: 2,596
    Prayers out to you and your wife. Love yours. D
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  • mantis
    mantis Posts: 17,200
    Prayers & thoughts for you and your wife. I'm so sorry you guys have to deal with this.
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  • PSOVLSK
    PSOVLSK Posts: 5,208
    Praying for comfort and healing. So sorry to hear about this, but so thankful you shared.
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