Are Perfect Spouses Possible?

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  • mantis
    mantis Posts: 17,201
    edited July 2014
    If you ever really meet this perfect mate, I'd like to meet her and her sister.
    Over my lifetime of dating and being married , I have found many excellent qualities in all my my women. None of them where my Perfect mate, even the one I married isn't perfect for me. She is however good for me in many ways and keeps me in line.
    I'm honestly not sure if it's really possible man.

    I look at my list of things I would like out of a women and I know no one can measure up to my list. It's unrealistic and pretty selfish when I really read it over. But there are key things that can really make 2 people work together and build a beautiful relationship.
    Dan
    My personal quest is to save to world of bad audio, one thread at a time.
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  • nooshinjohn
    nooshinjohn Posts: 25,464
    edited July 2014
    mantis wrote: »
    If you ever really meet this perfect mate, I'd like to meet her and her sister.
    Over my lifetime of dating and being married , I have found many excellent qualities in all my my women. None of them where my Perfect mate, even the one I married isn't perfect for me. She is however good for me in many ways and keeps me in line.
    I'm honestly not sure if it's really possible man.

    I look at my list of things I would like out of a women and I know no one can measure up to my list. It's unrealistic and pretty selfish when I really read it over. But there are key things that can really make 2 people work together and build a beautiful relationship.

    "And they two shall be one flesh: so then they are no more two, but one flesh."

    The reason so many fail is because of their precious lists and criteria. I asked God for a woman to fit my needs, and that failed every time I tried, so I changed my perception. I asked that instead she fill my weakness with strength, and in turn I would do the same for her. Her weaknesses were my strength, and as I taught her to become strong, she taught me to become better in my weaknesses.

    My best advice to anyone seeking the perfect spouse is to $hitcan that list and stop seeing women as something you find on a used car site and open your heart instead.

    I found mine at an AT&T store when I least expected it...
    The Gear... Carver "Statement" Mono-blocks, Mcintosh C2300 Arcam AVR20, Oppo UDP-203 4K Blu-ray player, Sony XBR70x850B 4k, Polk Audio Legend L800 with height modules, L400 Center Channel Polk audio AB800 "in-wall" surrounds. Marantz MM7025 stereo amp. Simaudio Moon 680d DSD

    “When once a Republic is corrupted, there is no possibility of remedying any of the growing evils but by removing the corruption and restoring its lost principles; every other correction is either useless or a new evil.”— Thomas Jefferson
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  • mantis
    mantis Posts: 17,201
    edited July 2014
    nooshinjohn wrote: »
    "And they two shall be one flesh: so then they are no more two, but one flesh."

    The reason so many fail is because of their precious lists and criteria. I asked God for a woman to fit my needs, and that failed every time I tried, so I changed my perception. I asked that instead she fill my weakness with strength, and in turn I would do the same for her. Her weaknesses were my strength, and as I taught her to become strong, she taught me to become better in my weaknesses.

    My best advice to anyone seeking the perfect spouse is to $hitcan that list and stop seeing women as something you find on a used car site and open your heart instead.

    I found mine at an AT&T store when I least expected it...
    What Data plan did she come with? How many inches is her screen? Good Memory? Was there a good to put her in? LOL
    Dan
    My personal quest is to save to world of bad audio, one thread at a time.
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  • nooshinjohn
    nooshinjohn Posts: 25,464
    edited July 2014
    mantis wrote: »
    what data plan did she come with? How many inches is her screen? Good memory? Was there a good to put her in? Lol


    lol...
    The Gear... Carver "Statement" Mono-blocks, Mcintosh C2300 Arcam AVR20, Oppo UDP-203 4K Blu-ray player, Sony XBR70x850B 4k, Polk Audio Legend L800 with height modules, L400 Center Channel Polk audio AB800 "in-wall" surrounds. Marantz MM7025 stereo amp. Simaudio Moon 680d DSD

    “When once a Republic is corrupted, there is no possibility of remedying any of the growing evils but by removing the corruption and restoring its lost principles; every other correction is either useless or a new evil.”— Thomas Jefferson
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  • pitdogg2
    pitdogg2 Posts: 25,689
    edited July 2014
    nooshinjohn wrote: »
    I found mine at an AT&T store when I least expected it...

    Not much on range then huh John couple of drop outs here and there?










    :mrgreen:

    just teasing pal.
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  • JimKellyfan
    JimKellyfan Posts: 696
    edited July 2014
    Mine is about as good as it gets....I can do about anything I want to. That is pretty big. Then, we were friends since 9th grade, so that helps.
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  • obieone
    obieone Posts: 5,077
    edited July 2014
    I voted no.
    I refuse to argue with idiots, because people can't tell the DIFFERENCE!
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  • Willow
    Willow Posts: 11,059
    edited July 2014
    I am living proof they are possible!

    All kidding asside no such thing as perfect. I prefer it that way
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  • Jhayman
    Jhayman Posts: 1,548
    edited July 2014
    Perfection is much like Beauty it's in the eye of the beholder and well mine was Perfect for me...:biggrin:
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