It's been a tough day.
Moose68Bash
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This morning my wife and I attended the memorial service for my neighbor and golfing buddy who died of lung cancer 10 days ago.
He put up the good fight. He was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer last fall. It was soon discovered that it had metastasized to his brain.
He suffered through chemotherapy. He underwent radiation treatments. He tried immunotherapy.
He finally began an experimental treatment about a month ago. After two weeks the doctors told him that it wasn't working and that he had about six months to live.
He died a week later.
I loved the guy.
I'm at the point now that I can only think about all the things I should have and could have done with him and all the things I could have and should have said to him over the past few weeks.
"Getting old; ain't it Hell," in the words of my late mother.
He put up the good fight. He was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer last fall. It was soon discovered that it had metastasized to his brain.
He suffered through chemotherapy. He underwent radiation treatments. He tried immunotherapy.
He finally began an experimental treatment about a month ago. After two weeks the doctors told him that it wasn't working and that he had about six months to live.
He died a week later.
I loved the guy.
I'm at the point now that I can only think about all the things I should have and could have done with him and all the things I could have and should have said to him over the past few weeks.
"Getting old; ain't it Hell," in the words of my late mother.
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Sorry for your loss.Pio Elete Pro 520
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My condolences
I'm sorry for your loss.
I wonder though why lung cancer seems to always take off for the brain?
Several friends and relatives have had the same thing happen it just seem more prevalent with lung cancer. -
Sorry to hear of your loss. We need to make the time we have with loved ones still here with us count.
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So sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was a good friend.Living Room 2.2: Usher BE-718 "tiny dancers"; Dual DIY Dayton audio RSS210HF-4 Subs with Dayton SPA-250 amps; Arcam SA30; Musical Fidelity A308; Sony UBP-x1000es
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I'm so sorry, sir.
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Man, a real tough day. So sorry.
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I am saddened to hear about your friend.
I lost a friend and neighbor today also. It is a very tough day.Carl -
So sorry for your loss. Small Cell Lung Cancer, if that's what he had, is one of the most aggressive types there is.
Say what you need to say, and want to say, to those you care about.
Better sooner than never.Home Theater/2 Channel:
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^^^^True. Glad to have you still with us Dave......Tip O' the Hat.
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It sure is tough when one of your best bud passed away so soon.
Good vibes and Prayers for his family and sorry for your loss too!Trying out Different Audio Cables is a Religious Affair. You don't discuss it with anyone. :redface::biggrin: -
Thanks, guys.
It's good to have this family at Club Polk.Family Room, Innuos Statement streamer (Roon Core) with Morrow Audio USB cable to McIntosh MC 2700 pre with DC2 Digital Audio Module; AQ Sky XLRs to CAT 600.2 dualmono amp, Morrow Elite Speaker Cables to NOLA Baby Grand Reference Gold 3 speakers. Power source for all components: Silver Circle Audio Pure Power One with dedicated 20 amp circuit to main panel.
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Really sorry for your loss. It's never easy to lose someone you care about.SDA 2B-TL (Sonicap/Solen/Mills, Erse Super Q, Rings, Spikes, No-Rez)
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So sorry for the loss of a true and close friend. Prayers for both of you. Take care.
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My condolences2-channel: Modwright KWI-200 Integrated, Dynaudio C1-II Signatures
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Very sorry for your loss. Hang in there.Jay
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I have three friends ive known since High School and talk to weekly, if not daily, quite often. Fantasy Football leagues, get togethers, concerts, parties, yearly golf trips and 10 - 15 rounds in-between. Been through births, deaths, divorces, job loss, gain and just life in general. I hope I go first (selfish, i know).
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^^^ "Good friends are a blessing." Worth repeating, over and over again. And cancer sucks.Integrated Amp: Marantz PM-10
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Moose68Bash thanks for sharing what's in your heart regarding your dear friend. Be comforted that he no doubt treasured the friendship too. We are so blessed in life if we have a single friend as you have experienced.
It don't matter how long we're here
It's never gonna be long enough
It ain't about the amount of years
It's about the amount of love
It don't matter if you're 18, 45 or 91
No matter what we do, we're never done
Everybody dies young
(Jake Owen)
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Sorry for your loss of a true friend, so hard to come by, and so difficult to let go.
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Sorry for your loss.Oh, Listen here mister. We got no way of understandin' this world. But we got as much sense of this bird flyin in the sky. Now there is a lot that bird don't know, but it don't change the fact that the world is happening to him all the same. What I am tryin to say is, is that the course of your life, well its changing, and you don't even see it- Forest Bondurant
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Very sorry to hear about this, sincere condolences for you and their family and friends.
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My condolences.Marantz AV-7705 PrePro, Classé 5 channel 200wpc Amp, Oppo 103 BluRay, Rotel RCD-1072 CDP, Sony XBR-49X800E TV, Polk S60 Main Speakers, Polk ES30 Center Channel, Polk S15 Surround Speakers SVS SB12-NSD x2
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Sorry for you loss. It is good to have people in your life that you truly miss when they are gone.
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Again, thanks to all of you for your thoughts, condolences and prayers.
Having Club Polk helps.
Warm regards to all, PhilFamily Room, Innuos Statement streamer (Roon Core) with Morrow Audio USB cable to McIntosh MC 2700 pre with DC2 Digital Audio Module; AQ Sky XLRs to CAT 600.2 dualmono amp, Morrow Elite Speaker Cables to NOLA Baby Grand Reference Gold 3 speakers. Power source for all components: Silver Circle Audio Pure Power One with dedicated 20 amp circuit to main panel.
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My condolences for your loss.Proud and loyal citizen of the Digital Domain and Solid State Country!
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My condolences Phil.
**** cancer."Some people find it easier to be conceited rather than correct."
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Sorry for your loss...
Getting old can suck, but many don't get the chance to get old..Polk Audio SDA 2.3tl Fully Hot Rodded. 😎
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Prayers out to all he touched. Peace. DMIT Magnum MH-750, Monster HTS 5100MKII, Sony 77" Class - A80CJ Series - 4K UHD OLED,PS4, Def Tech 15” sub,LSIM 706c, Sunfire Signature Grand 425 x 4,Parasound hca 120, LSiM 702 x 4, Oppo 103D, SDA SRS 1.2, Pioneer Elite SC63 , Pioneer Elite BDP-05 “Why did you get married if you wanted big speakers?”
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@ZLTFUL, @Toolfan66, and @Dabutcher,
Cancer certainly does suck, and so does getting old.
My friend was a good man, and he had reasonably long life of 74 years, which he used very well as a business leader, a hard-working and effective volunteer for worthy charitable purposes, and as a husband, father and grandfather.
Thanks for your thoughts and prayers.Family Room, Innuos Statement streamer (Roon Core) with Morrow Audio USB cable to McIntosh MC 2700 pre with DC2 Digital Audio Module; AQ Sky XLRs to CAT 600.2 dualmono amp, Morrow Elite Speaker Cables to NOLA Baby Grand Reference Gold 3 speakers. Power source for all components: Silver Circle Audio Pure Power One with dedicated 20 amp circuit to main panel.
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