Happy Birthday MrNightly

MrNightly

dudeinaroom wrote: »

Just don't do like my brother in-law. He had a totally awesome GF for 3 years. She was the one that he should have kept, smart, funny, caring,easy going, and also easy on the eyes. After 3 years together he still would not call her his girl friend. He ended up going away for a weekend, and just started ignoring her, and blowing her off. I'm pretty sure he will be kicking himself before too long. She is a real sweat girl. I really think my wifes brother is either afraid he will end up with some one like his Mom, or he is ****.

Get out of here, and either go out with your female friend, or with the guys and have some fun.

Again, happy birthday brother from another mother.
Ted

Dude....

No worries there. Sounds like your bro is **** And that is his loss apparently.

Here's to a fantastically great 2010! I think it will be the best year yet for me.... and if I am dating a girl for over a year and don't want to be with her forever, then something is wrong. I don't think it takes more then a year to figure out if you want to spend forever with that person or not.

Cheers,
David

snow

Happy Birthday



REGARDS SNOW

dudeinaroom

MrNightly wrote: »

....
Here's to a fantastically great 2010!

back at ya.

I think it will be the best year yet for me.... and if I am dating a girl for over a year and don't want to be with her forever, then something is wrong. I don't think it takes more then a year to figure out if you want to spend forever with that person or not.

Cheers,
David

My wife and I got engaged a little after a week together. The two of us met at church camp in the summer of '88 if the memory serves well. Stayed in contact for about two years. She got a hold of me on my birthday in '02, it was a Thursday, and I was on my way out the door. Phone rang, I picked it up. She asked if "I" was "ME", said yes. She said you probably don't remember me, her from camp x. Blew her away as I finished her last name before she could get it out. Met with her the following Sunday. Stayed out until an hour before work the next morning. The rest is history. We will have been together 7 years around the middle of this summer. We still get a long very well, she is my best friend. Romance has died off, but I'm working on bringing it back. On that note we will be expecting our 4th at the end of this summer.:eek::eek::eek:

I think it's time for a change. I need to do some thing BIG just gotta get myself turned back around (pull my head out of my....). Good thing is I am starting to see that I have been falling down a rabbit hole for a long time. And thanks to my life partner we are going to find a way to get me into working with one of my passions.

Sorry for the thread jack,might as well bring that one back up
Me

superjunior

happy birthday!!

hearingimpared

dudeinaroom wrote: »

We will have been together 7 years around the middle of this summer. We still get a long very well, she is my best friend. Romance has died off, but I'm working on bringing it back. On that note we will be expecting our 4th at the end of this summer.:eek::eek::eek:

Seems like a contradiction to me.;) Unless of course it happened when she was asleep!:eek::D:p

dudeinaroom

hearingimpared wrote: »

.........Unless of course it happened when she was asleep!:eek::D:p

Has been known to happen:D:p:D:p:eek:

hearingimpared

dudeinaroom wrote: »

Has been known to happen:D:p:D:p:eek:

In my best South Carolina drawl, "PREVERT!":D

dudeinaroom

She would rather have me do that then find someone else/self gratification(not that I would do the first one). If she wakes up it's a bonus for me and a surprise for her. Pervert, maybe a little. Nympho defiantly!

hearingimpared

dudeinaroom wrote: »

She would rather have me do that then find someone else/self gratification(not that I would do the first one). If she wakes up it's a bonus for me and a surprise for her. Pervert, maybe a little. Nympho defiantly!

LMAO!:eek:

lightman1

HBD David!!!
I'll bake you a birthday pie!

danz1906

Happy Birthday!

tonyb

Happy B-day. Wish you well on the other fronts also.

MrNightly

dudeinaroom wrote: »

back at ya.



My wife and I got engaged a little after a week together. The two of us met at church camp in the summer of '88 if the memory serves well. Stayed in contact for about two years. She got a hold of me on my birthday in '02, it was a Thursday, and I was on my way out the door. Phone rang, I picked it up. She asked if "I" was "ME", said yes. She said you probably don't remember me, her from camp x. Blew her away as I finished her last name before she could get it out. Met with her the following Sunday. Stayed out until an hour before work the next morning. The rest is history. We will have been together 7 years around the middle of this summer. We still get a long very well, she is my best friend. Romance has died off, but I'm working on bringing it back. On that note we will be expecting our 4th at the end of this summer.:eek::eek::eek:

I think it's time for a change. I need to do some thing BIG just gotta get myself turned back around (pull my head out of my....). Good thing is I am starting to see that I have been falling down a rabbit hole for a long time. And thanks to my life partner we are going to find a way to get me into working with one of my passions.

Sorry for the thread jack
Me

Ted,

Sounds like you have the right idea here buddy... relationships are not all easy and they ebb and flow... I think you are doing the right thing by pushing through on the down times... even if you don't feel it, if you can keep doing nice special things for your lady, the spark will return! While it won't last forever, the highs are so good when they hit!

When I left the Force, I went through a very dark personal time in my life... I never knew what Depression was until then. It can hit hard, and fast. And there really isn't a huge cure for it that I know of. Having a partner that will be there for you to lean on when you need a shoulder and finding a will to push through is the best thing in the world. It took me about 2 years to get out of the funk. Loosing a job, or having a job you love taken away is a huge blow to us men. Don't give up hope brother, and keep that determination firm. While you won't want to get out of bed sometimes, if you can keep pushing thru and making yourself take one step in front of the other, before you know it you might be walking again... then jogging and eventually running along at a great clip!

The same is true for relationships. Just keep at it, do little things here and there... take 5 minutes out of your work day and think of your wife and what you can do for her that will make her smile. It's the unexpected treats that make them smile that are worth it in the end!

While it may not line up with your belief system, there is a fantastic book called the "Love Dare." If nothing else, it gives you ideas to do for your spouse that might help rekindle the passion... and after all, there is no shame in using outside references for ideas on that topic is there? The smartest people use other's ideas for themselves and taylor them to their own situation.

Keep us posted man! We are here for you!