Girlfriend Question

Demiurge

bigaudiofanatic wrote: »

Called 20 min ago still on with her.

Is the wedding planned yet? Have you told her you loved her? Picked out baby names?

woodsman10b

I think you should invite her to live with you, plus she can help pick out the colors of paint for your room. I can see it now her and your mom cooking dinner together

george daniel

Run,, join the Marines,, go to foreign lands, learn their culture,involve yourself in their lifestyle,, get some travel underneath your belt,,you'll forget about her in a New York Minute.

BIZILL

george daniel wrote: »

Run,, join the Marines,, go to foreign lands, learn their culture,involve yourself in their lifestyle,, get some travel underneath your belt,,you'll forget about her in a New York Minute.

you're a glutton, young lad. in all honesty, i'd take george daniel's advice. it's something i feel i should have done at your age.

daboyz

Dude,sorry to say she's inbetween boyfriends and decided that you can keep her company until the next big thing comes along. RUN...............

Demiurge

Hi there!

rdb2001

Just my .02 cents. dude you are in college. You are supposed to run through women, get drunk and hope to graduate in 4-5 years. Why are you worried about one woman at your age. Have fun and enjoy life, then worry about settling down with one woman, sew your oats dude and have fun.

bigaudiofanatic

rdb2001 wrote: »

Just my .02 cents. dude you are in college. You are supposed to run through women, get drunk and hope to graduate in 4-5 years. Why are you worried about one woman at your age. Have fun and enjoy life, then worry about settling down with one woman, sew your oats dude and have fun.

Very true lol

Norm Apter

bigaudiofanatic wrote: »

It really was not drama I think she was mad that I was unemployed and getting unemployment while she was not. She now has a good job and all.

Again...just so I get this straight. She broke up with you because she was envious of your unemployment check. This just seems downright weird and not particularly "big" of her.

I think George has the right idea. When I was 22 I spent a year teaching English at a remote location in China....didn't make much money (just enough to get by) but it really helped me put all of my relationships (from family to friends to gf) in perspective...that year of getting out of my comfort zone still has an impact on who I am today.

Not trying to be harsh or judgmental, but based on what you've told us and common experience, it seems she may not be the one to build something substantial with. If you're into for just a good time, have at it. Just don't fool yourself...thats all I'm sayin'.

BIZILL

are you really 22?

bigaudiofanatic

No 21 he was using himself as an example.

F1nut

Strap on...strap off.

nooshinjohn

bigaudiofanatic wrote: »

I love how people can also be stupid YOU need to read. She is frekin local as in like 10 minutes from me. So all fo you need so shove off.

You are the one who brought this here... we are only having some fun with you. Maybe next time your dating life will stay private:D

Polkersince85

Once there was a puppy dog walking down the railroad track. He got sleepy and laid down for a nap. He woke up when the train came and cut off the tip of his tail. He turned around to see what happened and the train cut his head off.

Moral of the story is: Don't lose your head over a little piece of tail.

bigaudiofanatic

LMAO nice story

Retro152

Hook up for the ole "Pump and dump" and call it a day, unless your......ah humm, serious. Think the gang has laid out some good advice otherwise.:D






Pat.

BIZILL

are you sure you're21? just sayin'. you seem a bit naive.

snow

bigaudiofanatic wrote: »

So about a year ago I hooked up with a girl. Long story short about 3 months ago she broke up with me saying she never wanted to see me again and all. Now she still talked to my mother on AIM because they use to go to class together a few years ago, and she would always ask how I was doing almost every night she would ask. Anyway last night she text me asking how I was and all. We than talked for over an hour. Here is my question. Tonight should I call her up or wait for her to call me?

I would change my PH # and if that dont work tell her you have discovered your ****. Then go find yourself another girlfriend there are literally millions available.



REGARDS SNOW

MrNightly

So have you actually met this one in person? I am so totally confused. Let me get this straight:

The stripper, who wasn't a stripper full time, just to make money over the holidays, broke up with you after having her baby then you realized your online girlfriend was your true love and maybe you should marry her, but then you got dumped because she was jealous of your unemployment checks and now the stripper hates her and she wants you to protect her from the angry stripper child but you haven't actually met either of them in person to have sex, just the tip, in and out, slippery slide... and now you think it's true love?

Um... I gotta lay down, this is making me dizzy.

Norm Apter

MrNightly wrote: »

So have you actually met this one in person? I am so totally confused. Let me get this straight:

The stripper, who wasn't a stripper full time, just to make money over the holidays, broke up with you after having her baby then you realized your online girlfriend was your true love and maybe you should marry her, but then you got dumped because she was jealous of your unemployment checks and now the stripper hates her and she wants you to protect her from the angry stripper child but you haven't actually met either of them in person to have sex, just the tip, in and out, slippery slide... and now you think it's true love?

Um... I gotta lay down, this is making me dizzy.

Daytime talk shows got nothin' on that scenario!

---But I'm still wondering, isn't this a combination of JoshParson's tale and BAF's tale. Oh, forget it...I give up.

Rivrrat

I've been in this guys shoes a couple of times when I was around the same age. All I ever did with them was the matress mambo, and then moved on.

Too many fish in the sea to do retreads.

bsoko2

He should go and join the Marines, they'll straighten his youing **** out.

Semper Fi, Bill

disneyjoe7

I don't know but I sense some PINK colored walls in the end.

dkg999

If your main source of relationship advice is an internet audio forum you should really consider the marines or a budhist monestary on top of a tall mountain in a very remote location. Hell's bells, Dr Laura is on talk radio at least a couple of times everyday and she loves this type of crap!

heiney9

This thread is Unfu*kingbelievable. WTF. Asking girlfriend advice on an audio forum. Don't you have a My Space page you can get people your own age to respond to this crap. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Very strange this one is.

H9

concealer404

Demiurge wrote: »

Hi there!

Cockblocker!!!!!!

kawizx9r

I just jumped in on the LAST page of this thread and here alone it mentions joining the Marines like 3-4 different times lol.

I spent my +4yrs in the marine corps and it's changed me a HUGE bunch. I need to realize more often that I'm NOT in it anymore......but I'm an **** now so if that's what it'll take to make you one instead of a pushover then do it.

Btw, I read that thread of over a year ago with the girl on e-harmony.....bro it took me 6yrs until I even proposed to my wife (and there were plenty of girls in between when we were "taking a break").

Imo, go have fun.....you'll kick yourself in the **** later if you don't.

tonyb

I knew there was a girl involved in your decision to paint that room. Your still in college right ? So a temperary bout of unemployment scared her off ? In my honest opinion my man,this is one girl looking to get married. Your decision.

Systems

Like I said, post a pic of her and we'll go from there......