Girlfriend Question

bigaudiofanatic
bigaudiofanatic Posts: 4,415
edited November 2009 in The Clubhouse
So about a year ago I hooked up with a girl. Long story short about 3 months ago she broke up with me saying she never wanted to see me again and all. Now she still talked to my mother on AIM because they use to go to class together a few years ago, and she would always ask how I was doing almost every night she would ask. Anyway last night she text me asking how I was and all. We than talked for over an hour. Here is my question. Tonight should I call her up or wait for her to call me?
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  • Knucklehead
    Knucklehead Posts: 3,602
    edited November 2009
    if you like her call her, if not dont waste your time. good luck.
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  • Danny Tse
    Danny Tse Posts: 5,206
    edited November 2009
    If you feel ok about it, why not call her? Don't pass up a second chance if you really like her. Like the Steve Winwood song said, "While You See a Chance, Take It"
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  • exalted512
    exalted512 Posts: 10,735
    edited November 2009
    When my wife and I were dating, we never ran into any issues like that...breaking up, getting back together...etc. I dont see how people to do that after you get out of high school.

    Has she changed at all? ie...more mature now or something? If not, i wouldnt bother for anything other than a....nevermind.
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  • thsmith
    thsmith Posts: 6,082
    edited November 2009
    You have to ask yourself, what changed and why ? She left in a huff from the sounds of it, how much drama can you stand?
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  • bigaudiofanatic
    bigaudiofanatic Posts: 4,415
    edited November 2009
    It really was not drama I think she was mad that I was unemployed and getting unemployment while she was not. She now has a good job and all.
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  • nooshinjohn
    nooshinjohn Posts: 25,381
    edited November 2009
    Rosie Palms and her five sisters do not count as a girlfriend:rolleyes:...

    Wait until she calls you and then tell her to take a hike.
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  • greg2350
    greg2350 Posts: 544
    edited November 2009
    bigaudiofanatic wrote: »
    It really was not drama I think she was mad that I was unemployed and getting unemployment while she was not. She now has a good job and all.

    She wasnt recieving unemployment so she broke up with you HMMM doesnt sound right.
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  • RuSsMaN
    RuSsMaN Posts: 17,987
    edited November 2009
    You should listen to some tunes and forget about it.
    Check your lips at the door woman. Shake your hips like battleships. Yeah, all the white girls trip when I sing at Sunday service.
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  • BIZILL
    BIZILL Posts: 5,432
    edited November 2009
    you knocked her up.

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  • bigaudiofanatic
    bigaudiofanatic Posts: 4,415
    edited November 2009
    BIZILL wrote: »
    you knocked her up.

    LOL na
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  • Systems
    Systems Posts: 14,873
    edited November 2009
    Lets see a pic of her....then we'll decide:)
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  • bobman1235
    bobman1235 Posts: 10,822
    edited November 2009
    Drama is rarely worth it, IMO. Plenty of fish and all that. IT's easy to fall back into something familiar / comfortable but usually things end for a reason.
    If you will it, dude, it is no dream.
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited November 2009
    Is this the stripper you met on the internet or am I thinking of a different poster?
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  • bigaudiofanatic
    bigaudiofanatic Posts: 4,415
    edited November 2009
    Never meet a stripper lol so I would say no. This is a local girl.
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  • bobman1235
    bobman1235 Posts: 10,822
    edited November 2009
    Demiurge wrote: »
    Is this the stripper you met on the internet or am I thinking of a different poster?

    Oh God I remember that one. THat was classic.
    If you will it, dude, it is no dream.
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited November 2009
    Classic, indeed. Sorry, I kept thinking she was a stripper, even last time, but is this the one?

    http://www.polkaudio.com/forums/showthread.php?t=71372&highlight=stripper
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  • Norm Apter
    Norm Apter Posts: 1,036
    edited November 2009
    bobman1235 wrote: »
    Oh God I remember that one. THat was classic.

    I remember that story as well. More drama in that saga than I've had in my whole life.

    OK, if this wasn't the stripper, was this the one who was a nursing student? So many CP stories to draw from...:D
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  • WilliamM2
    WilliamM2 Posts: 4,771
    edited November 2009
    BIZILL wrote: »
    you knocked her up.

    Or her new boyfriend did, dumped her, and now she's looking for a daddy!
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited November 2009
    Minds like steel traps here.
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  • audiobliss
    audiobliss Posts: 12,518
    edited November 2009
    Demiurge wrote: »
    Minds like steel traps here.

    and obviously about very important information, too :p
    George Grand wrote: »
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited November 2009
    I never forget a good potential train wreck. Besides we've saved him once from one we can do it again. :D
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  • madmax
    madmax Posts: 12,434
    edited November 2009
    If she thought you were a shitbag before, she will again in the future.
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  • bigaudiofanatic
    bigaudiofanatic Posts: 4,415
    edited November 2009
    LOL NO IT IS NOT THAT ONE and that girl was never a stripper.
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  • TroyD
    TroyD Posts: 13,077
    edited November 2009
    Pfffffffft. What is this, friggin' Club Oprah?

    Look, I'm assuming that you guys played the 'just the tip, just for a second, just to see how it feels' game.....and she found that it wasn't enough to keep her from dumping your **** once, what do you think is going to keep her from doing it now? Other than the fact that you say you are now employed, in which case you are a good candidate to pay her cell phone bill and all that jazz.

    P.T. Barnum did make an excellent point....

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  • treitz3
    treitz3 Posts: 18,987
    edited November 2009
    Maybe she was hoping that you have changed the green carpet by now.
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited November 2009
    treitz3 wrote: »
    Maybe she was hoping that you have changed the green carpet by now.

    Maybe she has green carpet now, you ever think of that!? :eek:
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  • BIZILL
    BIZILL Posts: 5,432
    edited November 2009
    lol at my post in that linked thread. LOL. i AM an ****.:p

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  • treitz3
    treitz3 Posts: 18,987
    edited November 2009
    Demiurge wrote: »
    Maybe she has green carpet now, you ever think of that!? :eek:
    That's disgusting. Two green carpet people? Oh, the humanity.........
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  • audiobliss
    audiobliss Posts: 12,518
    edited November 2009
    BIZILL wrote: »
    lol at my post in that linked thread. LOL. i AM an ****.:p

    Were you ever debating that point? :D
    George Grand wrote: »
    Jstas wrote: »
    Simple question. If you had a cool million bucks, what would you do with it?
    Wonder WTF happened to the rest of my money.
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited November 2009
    BIZILL wrote: »
    lol at my post in that linked thread. LOL. i AM an ****.:p


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