So... I'm getting married

ben62670

carpenter wrote: »

Ok, once a thread is tagged "no more bj's" there isn't much I can do, but I'll give it a try.
The best advice I can give you, is: learn how to argue, or better yet, learn how to prevent an augment from transforming into a huge fight.
However worked up you're getting mid argument .....
1) never bring up her mother
2) never mention her looks
3) never talk trash about her girlfriends, especially if their overweight ..
4) never, ever (ever (ever)) mention one of your old girlfriends, and how they behaved better in similar situations.

If I'm to translate it to Bj economics (thus keeping up with the spirit of the thread )
each violation will cost you a month. and there is no such thing as concurrent sentencing in a marriage.


and finally.. Congrats man!, Getting married is the best thing I ever did!

May I add one thing to this? Anything you say as a married man will be held against you for the rest of your life no matter how small you think it is. Not trying to scare you from marriage. It can be a wonderful thing if worked at. To many get dissatisfied. Marriage doesn't make life better, but is a commitment that needs to be taken seriously. I wish the best.
Congrats
Ben

Grimster74

RUN, just RUN like hell in the opposite direction. Just joking bro, as many have said, marriage is a wonderful thing as long as you both work at it, marriage takes two to make it complete. My wife and I are going on our 13th year (yeah, we've put up with each other that long) of being married and take it from me, it hasn't all been easy, most of it has but there will always be hills to climb. Wishing you and yours the best and congratulations to the both of you.

Rob