Prayers needed...

Grimster74
Grimster74 Posts: 2,570
edited October 2007 in The Clubhouse
Well, it's been a rough month for the Grim family. For a month or so now my wife's father has been really ill. Well he finally went to the doctors yesterday to have some test done and low and behold, the doctor's discovered cancer in his colon. He goes back to the doctor today to have an MRI done to make sure it hasn't spread to any other parts of his body. It's really scaring the hell out of my wife because back in June of this year, my wifes grandfather, her fathers dad passed away from the exact same thing.

Well to top it all off, my wife is going in today for an MRI/MRA for her neck. Apparently the neurologist think my wife has an leaking artery in her neck thats been causing numbness in her right hand, headaches and intense neck pains. I come to you guys today asking for prayers that my father-in-law will have a safe and speedy recovery and that the cancer has not spread into any other parts of his body and that the results of my wifes test will find something that will be simple to correct. Thanks.
Money Talks, Mine says Goodbye Rob!!!!
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  • Ricardo
    Ricardo Posts: 10,636
    edited October 2007
    Prayers sent; best wishes.
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  • reeltrouble1
    reeltrouble1 Posts: 9,312
    edited October 2007
    The Grimster family will be in my prayers.

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  • beardog03
    beardog03 Posts: 5,550
    edited October 2007
    done ...

    Keep us posted


    Your in our thoughts and prayers....
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  • bdaley6509
    bdaley6509 Posts: 1,167
    edited October 2007
    Prayers sent.
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  • criverajr
    criverajr Posts: 1,675
    edited October 2007
    From my family to yours prayers sent.

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  • schwarcw
    schwarcw Posts: 7,335
    edited October 2007
    I will say special prayers for your wife and father-in-law. God Bless!
    Carl

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  • janmike
    janmike Posts: 6,146
    edited October 2007
    You and yours are in our prayers. All the best.
    Michael ;)
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  • engtaz
    engtaz Posts: 7,663
    edited October 2007
    Prayers sent and God bless you and yours.

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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited October 2007
    Prayers and well wishes.
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  • phoneisbusy
    phoneisbusy Posts: 867
    edited October 2007
    Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

    Dave
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  • Maurice
    Maurice Posts: 517
    edited October 2007
    Praying right now bro.
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  • snow
    snow Posts: 4,337
    edited October 2007
    Done


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  • fireshoes
    fireshoes Posts: 3,167
    edited October 2007
    Good luck, Grimster. My dad passed away from colon cancer last year, after it moved to his liver.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,536
    edited October 2007
    You got it, prayers sent.
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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited October 2007
    You got it Grim.
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  • Grimster74
    Grimster74 Posts: 2,570
    edited October 2007
    Thanks a million guys. My wife had her test done today so all we can do is wait to hear what the results will be, praying for the positive, as far as her father, still no word as to what the results are as far as I know. Once again, its so nice to know I'll as well as everyone else on the forum always have the Polk forum to fall back on for prayers and moral support. Once again guys and gals, THANK-YOU.
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  • PolkThug
    PolkThug Posts: 7,532
    edited October 2007
    Best of luck to all. Just went through this with my wife, the MRI showed a ruptured disk.
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  • jtgranby
    jtgranby Posts: 887
    edited October 2007
    Best of luck and prayers from my family to yours.

    Jim
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  • daboyz
    daboyz Posts: 5,207
    edited October 2007
    Prayers are with you
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  • mrbigbluelight
    mrbigbluelight Posts: 9,673
    edited October 2007
    Prayers for the Grimster family sent, and best wishes.
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  • mantis
    mantis Posts: 17,185
    edited October 2007
    Best wishes man.
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  • george daniel
    george daniel Posts: 12,096
    edited October 2007
    Prayers sent.
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  • Grimster74
    Grimster74 Posts: 2,570
    edited October 2007
    Just an update, my wifes test results came back today and all of them are "Normal". She has to call and setup a follow-up appointment and I guess they will figure out where to go from there.

    As far as her dad, things are not so good on that end. Apparently he has known something wasn't right for over a year now but never bothered to see a doctor or tell anyone else. Well, after waiting so long to see a doctor about it, apparently the mass has grown so large that it's affected the Spline, Liver, Bladder and Colon. He is supposed to go and have surgery here real soon (not sure of the date) and the doctor's are going to completely remove his spine and parts of both the liver and bladder. Here is the kicker, said he had no problems getting the surgery done but absolutely under no circumstances was he to get chemo or radiation. Doctors even told him the only way he would have a fighting chance is to get this done and his comment was, "Don't care". When the doctor asked why he waited till now to come inn, said he didn't want to be a burden on anyone while his father was dying of cancer. Well, what does he think this is? He's always been one of those people that thinks only of himself and never about anyone else, hasn't even considered he has two daughters and/or 8 grandchildren (only 2 are mine). So long story short, I ask that you guys keep praying that her father, whether it's the right decision or the wrong decision, which ever he makes, that he just be comfortable with as little pain as possible as he goes threw his long journey ahead of him. Thanks again guys and I'll keep ya posted.
    Money Talks, Mine says Goodbye Rob!!!!
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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited October 2007
    Sorry to hear that Grim. With it having spread so wide, he won't last too long. It would probably be better to just not have the surgery, make him comfortable & let him go. Doesn't make a lot of sense to chop him into pieces knowing that they can't save him.

    I'm sorry for the grief that you & your family are about to go through.

    Try & remember this & do the exact opposite of what he has done.

    Take care.
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  • bigaudiofanatic
    bigaudiofanatic Posts: 4,415
    edited October 2007
    I'm sorry for the grief that your family is going threw.
    Still Praying for him.
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  • Sherardp
    Sherardp Posts: 8,038
    edited October 2007
    cfrizz wrote: »
    Sorry to hear that Grim. With it having spread so wide, he won't last too long. It would probably be better to just not have the surgery, make him comfortable & let him go. Doesn't make a lot of sense to chop him into pieces knowing that they can't save him.

    I'm sorry for the grief that you & your family are about to go through.

    Try & remember this & do the exact opposite of what he has done.

    Take care.

    Talk about blunt. I guess in the end youre right I suppose. Hopefully he changes his mind and goes through with the chemo or radiation. But in the end we all know when its time to let go and leave this ole' world. So maybe thats the way he feels bro. Sad to say man, I know. Prayers and thoughts sent my brother. Go easy and go for a ride on ya bike man, free your mind. PM if you need anything.
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  • Polk addict
    Polk addict Posts: 558
    edited October 2007
    Good luck to ya... Hope everything works out... Prayers sent...
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