I must...I must rant... I mean i really must...

VR3

You know... Ive always known Im a different kind of "teen". I put "..." around Teen because there are two types. There are the type of teens (the more popular kind) that is rebellious, inconsiderate, sociopaths and just wants to make life their own lil dance floor. I am the exact opposite of this. While I like to have fun as much as the next person, I do not find TPing, egging, flouring peoples houses and cars a fun activity. I do not find coming in and out of peoples houses (over 30 people in one night) from 11pm to 4am, causing the parents to have no sleep and be completely stressed for work a fun activity...

I do not find rebelling against my parents a fun activity...

So I guess I am different? Because I see this oh so often in my house. My sister wonders why I do not like her in the least bit, its because she is such a..such... such a jackass.

I mean really. If I had woken up last night... I would of gone outside to get a bat and rallied everyone out of this house.

My Mom works 8 hours (sometimes more) a day... comes home, studies for school... goes to school after those long 8 hours and then studies...she has to be a employee, a student, and a Mom...

The house was finally clean and my sister comes home from college and wanted to name this house grand central! WTF...

Not only that, but she had been rolling peoples houses, infact... there was over 20 trash bags full of toilet paper in our garage...

These people come into this house, trash it, make all kinds of noise throughout the night...

They dont pick up after theirself and they leave and the people that care or have the time (namely me) to pick it up...

I have never seen people so inconsider of other people and their property. If this is a "teen"... then I say f*ck them.

My kids will know what respect is and they will know what respect is to other people. Period and End.

Maybe its because I havnt really had a chance to have a "teen life" - working for my Dad, working around the house, helping my Mom and patroling my sister. Its about enough to make anyone go mad...

So f*cking tired of it folks...

If my sister was not a girl... I would have kicked her ****$ SOOOOOOOOOOOOO long ago... SOOOOOOO LONG ago...

Rule 1 when going to other peoples houses - TREAT IT AS IF IT WAS YOURS. AND IF YOU TRASH YOURS, TREAT IT LIKE ANYONE CIVILIZED WOULD.

God almighty...

steveinaz

She's in college and still teepee's houses?

Have you tried tightly wrapping your hand around her neck and explaining it to her nicely?

TroyD

Rant all you like Sid. Don't tell anyone, but I think you might just turn out ok.

BDT

polkatese

proud of you, Sid! continue with that kind of life philosophy, one day you'll look back and appreciated where you came from, and the wealth that comes with it.

HBombToo

Your on track there little buddy. In fact I'm gonna buy you a 50 gallon drum of Armour All.

HBomb

madmax

Armor-all speakers, tping houses, whats the difference...

You really should get out more often.

madmax

danger boy

good for you Trey, you got a big leap ahead of a lot of other "teens" your age.

I think i'm gonna tear up soon... NOT!

madmax

I just feel so sorry for him having to clean up because people visit. Oh the burden which has fallen on him. Isn't it a shame we have to put up with other people.
madmax

Early B.

Sid -- since you're the man of the house, lay down the rules of conduct on your sister. It doesn't matter if she's older. She damn sure ain't acting like it. If she doesn't comply, embarass her in front of her friends. I'm sure you can think of lots of fun and innovative ways to do that.

polkatese

is she hot, Sid?

polkatese

eewwww, Sean!.....................................................is she?

VR3

Chuck...

I normally have no problems with your posts, but you are coming down to a jackass status... not because you dont agree with me - but because you are doing something no one should ever do... and that is assume.

You are assuming I am mad because this is the first time this has happened. You are also assuming I am mad because I had to clean up after other people.

No see, you are wrong.

I am mad because our house has been egged and tped - multiple times. No see, I am mad because our garage window was broken because my sister couldnt come back later with a key, but HAD to get in RIGHT THEN. And they refused to replace the window because she had something so important to do...

No see.. I am mad because my sister is abusive on a verbal and sometimes physical level to my Mom. And Until I was bigger than her, this did not stop.

No see, the fact she has no respect for people and their rules, even in her own family is why I am mad. That she constantly needs a patrolmen...constantly trying to ride the boundary, coming home at rediculous hours at night... making my Mom go insane...

I honestly do not care about what happened last night. I am just so sick and f*cking tired of cleaning up after my sister, and making life easier for her so she can destruct once again. I'm tired of coming home hearing about the absolutely STUPID and CARELESS things she does that is passed off because "people cant control her" because she has "ADHD" because she "dosnt listen to anyone" - its BS. Absolute BS. Maybe because she thinks she can evade from any situation and annoy people into submission, but dangit... it dosnt work...

I am not mad because of simple things...Im annoyed and god almighty... I don't want to take it anymore... How can people HONESTLY live this way? Do they NOT see what they do to other people?

You are probally saying Im an uptight guy, and you know what.. I might be... but i have had "respect others and respect their property" pushed down my throat from day 1 and when people dont and then keep doing it and keep trying to push those limits... it just aggrivates me to no end...

When you have to put locks on things in your own house to keep other family members from tinkering with it... you have a problem...

Now you may find my frustrations a little insignificant to what you think is significant... but right now... all I can say is OH WELL. Because I don't really care.

Have a NICE day.

madmax

Oh sorry, I didn't realize she had ADHD. You should be a little more tolerant.
madmax

Ised8u

madmax wrote:

Oh sorry, I didn't realize she had ADHD. You should be a little more tolerant.
madmax

LMAO...now that is some funny **** madmax

cfrizz

Sid, you are growing into a fine young man.

Now you need to go one step further. CALL THE COPS ON YOUR SISTER!!!

I assume she is now 18 yrs old. She is now considered an adult. It is time that you showed her what that means. When she is dragged out in handcuffs she just might get a clue.

brettw22

Mom would have to make that call, since Sid's a minor and it's not his place of ownership residence.......

I'd at least suggest a harsh confrontation late at night with all her friends over yelling and telling her that she, and all her friends, are being inconsiderate **** while people are trying to sleep at night.

cfrizz

Kids dial 911 in emergencies all the time. Just claim that a fight is going on & let the cops sort out the rest. Just having them knock on the door will be enough to give the dumb idiots a wake up call.

ND13

Trey's a freak, plain and simple, a FREAK!!!

Roy Munson

cfrizz wrote:

Kids dial 911 in emergencies all the time. Just claim that a fight is going on & let the cops sort out the rest. Just having them knock on the door will be enough to give the dumb idiots a wake up call.

The police are the very last people Sid should be calling!!!!!!!!!!

cfrizz

Hell better yet, Sid if you have a cell phone, call one of your neighbors & have them call the cops. Once they get there & hear all the noise it becomes self explainatory!!!

cfrizz

Why?

Roy Munson wrote:

The police are the very last people Sid should be calling!!!!!!!!!!

BIZILL

hopefully sis can be straightened out without getting herself a nice police history that will follow her through life.

petrym

Sid,
By cleaning up after her and letting her get her way with no consequences you are acting as an enabler. She needs to learn responsibility for her actions - whether by family authority or by city/state authority - before someone gets hurt and the scheisse hits the fan. You have a level head on your shoulders and she doesn't, she uses her ADHD as an excuse for her behavior.

Our 10 year old son has ADHD and we're teaching him, albeit slowly and carefully, by using consistent parenting and understanding consequences to help him make better choices.

It sounds as if your sister has yet to learn the way of reasonability, she needs a good, hard, and quick kick of reality to get her to pull her head out of her backside. Good luck my friend.
Michael

Schris22

Mom has it hard here too...but she raised us right...

do as much as you can for your mom but really...need to put the sister in line...

I respect what you're doing Sid but if you rant to us and don't take action then nothing will happen.

Me and my brother didn't get the crap that everyone else did but we did have respect for everyone's houses and things/property in general.

Just take some action against your sister...talk to your mom and let your sis know how things might be without you two's support...

Just set her straight.

Chris

VR3

While I completely agree with you that me cleaning up after her is not helping the situation...

But you have to understand that if I dont do it, she definitely isnt going to... that leaves my Mom.

And well...that wont solve anything either...

And why shouldnt I call the cops? What are they going to talk to me about?

Roy Munson

Vr3MxStyler2k3 wrote:

And why shouldnt I call the cops? What are they going to talk to me about?

Sid, the police are not going to help you with your family problems or straighten out your sister, nothing good would come from calling the police! Some type of counseling is what is needed not the police. If your mom can't afford it or your sister refuses to accept help you might consider asking for some counseling at school if it is available, it might not do much good for your sis but it might help you deal with it better.

Hope things work out for you.

beardog03

a roll of duct tape, and a bar of soap in a sock...

nuff said...!










sounds like mom needs to lay down the laws and make sure they are met to the letter..zero tolerence..
if someone can`t respect the homefront and the family members in it, they need to be made to leave..

just my .o2

BIZILL

yes, why is moms not reprimanding your sis? she needs to dish out some 'tough love'.

Roy Munson

I agree!

amulford

I've got something for you to try. She wants to be up all night, right? Well, she has to sleep some time. When she does, give her a taste of her own medicine. When she starts bitchin', Good for the Goose.

Going to your mom ain't going to help. She's probably believing the ADHD ****, too. You're gonna have to handle this one, bud.

VR3

Well Ive always known my Mom dosnt lay down the law...

Thats kind of the whole problem... lol - kind of why I have to step up... and kind of why the situation lasted from 11-4am the night before...

There isnt much hope for my sister, no one is willing to punish her...and when you do - she just leaves... lol (she has a car and lives at college)...

Sad sad world...

She'll get hers one day though... if I dont do it...someone will.