A sad day...

MrNightly

I know i haven't been here long, most don't know me, and probably most don't want to.. but regardless, i've enjoyed my time spent here, reading posts, laughing with myself and learning a little about audio in the meantime.

The short of it is this, it's the christmas time of year... and i'm losing my job. I don't really want to get into all the details now, but it comes down to political BS on the force, and i'm taking the brunt of it. Its really hard on me, as i've never had to go thru this kinda thing before. My wife is pregnant with our second daughter, and well... its just rough. The chief said she'd let me know on the 22nd of Dec if i will have to resign/get fired. If anyone cares, all thoughts and prayers are appreciated.

Again, don't mean to take up you guys valuable time, just wanted to pass it on.

Merry Christmas.

David K.

Willow

Sorry to hear about your situation.

But Chin up, it will all work out.

ledhed

Man, that sucks. I'm sorry. I'm guessing you are a police officer and, in all seriousness (if you are willing to move), TONS of positions in TN have opened up for a scandle type thing in our police. But for know, thoughts and prayers are with your family

Tour2ma

Nah... You never made the double secret "don't want to" list...

Best wishes to you and yours for better times in '06. Hold each other close and be prepared for the Power of Club Polk...

It's coming your way...

F1nut

David,

That sucks, especially this time of the year. Remember though, when one door closes another opens.

Best wishes,
Jesse

BIZILL

man, you've got all of our support. best of luck to you and yours.

polkatese

David,

Sorry to hear that, especially during the holidays like this. I know it is easier said than done, but count your blessings, while waiting for your second arrival. As Jesse said, one door closes, another opens. Take care.

Ron-P

Don't be too down about it. From my past experience getting laid off has resulted in a better job. Just enjoy your family right now and be strong for them.

dorokusai

Rock on.

TroyD

Amen, broham.....things like this generally work out for the better. Odds are in you favor.

Good luck/best wishes.

Troy

wingnut4772

Hey MrNightly,

Hang in there. I too am in law enforcement and I know what a mess it can be. It's a big country with lots of police departments. Are you a member of PBA? Can you appeal? If that's not possible, just resign and start somewhere else. Don't give them the satisfaction. Whatever happens is meant to be and you will be ok.
Good Luck,
Darla

cfrizz

Sorry to hear this MrNightly. However, you do have the best things in life already, and with your skills another PD will be more than happy to have another officer in their ranks! So will the public.

Take care,
Cathy

Maurice

A BETTER job is on the way bro.

Driver

ive been there too, i lost my job and just before christmas, but for me it was a good for me as it allowed me to move on to bigger and better things, we all know that things (no matter what it might be) happen for a reason. but it will work out, just keep a positive attitude, and keep your head up, good luck.

madmax

Don't waste your time off, another job is on the way so you might as well enjoy it.
madmax

steveinaz

Sorry about that brotha. Prayers sent, and I appreciate your service.

Demiurge

Everyone has already said it, something better will come along, just make sure to nab it when you know it's right. Sorry to hear about this happening, though. Never good to be put in this position, especially when it isn't performance related.

McLoki

Sorry to hear about your situation, but you will come out of this better than you are now.

Just plan to leave now and get yourself in that mindset. Start picking out places you would like to live and get your resume up to date.

If you choose to share where you would like to be (both physically and professionally) I am sure we will help where we can. (many of us either are, or have friends/family that are, in law enforcement.)

Best of luck in your search and a very merry Christmas to you and yours,

Michael

Skynut

That is a real holliday ruiner.
I know, I just had to fire a guy 2 weeks ago and I felt terrible.
But like has been said here get the resume together and send that bad boy out.
Be confident (not cocky) at your interviews and you will get gobbled up by the first good place to talk to you.
Good luck and don't be afraid to ask if you need anything you never know who can and will help.

dragon1952

Hang in there bro. All things seem to happen for a reason. At least that's the way it seems to work for me. Good luck!

W WALDECKER

God bless and keep you and your family. i am very familiar with the dynamic of politics in the workplace. hold your head up with pride and stay above it all. change can be a good thing. Good Luck! thanks....WCW III

MrNightly

Wow... Thanks for the support. That means a lot to me. We have a new Lt, who just got promoted about 7 months ago, and he's already fired 1, i'm on the line, and he has 3 more lined up. And the funny thing is, none of it is because of performance. It's like he has a hate list, and he's just going down it.

But you guys all are right... something better is ahead. I am going to apply at KCMO, PD if they give me the option to resign. The problem is, what the Lt is pinning on me, is Character related. He is claiming i'm a liar, when there is no proof and it's totally stupid. He wrote a 8 page report that he read to the Chief as to why i should be fired. It's just crazy, that's all i can say. So, i'm afraid if I do get fired for "being a Liar," (Which, in our interview with the Chief, I caught HIM in a lie, and called him on it, which he just slammed his fists on the table and said I was lieing again... If only i had my tape recorder.. but I sidetrack) I won't be able to get another job ever in Law Enforcement.

But... But.. there's always buts eh? Anyways, thanks and i'll be around. I've brushed up my Resume and talked to a recruiter yesterday at KCMO. We'll see.

Thanks guys,

David

MacLeod

I wish you the best bro. Im sorry you got caught up in some politcal BS. I dont know why but police and Sheriff dept's seem to have more political crap going on than in Congress, at least in my neck of the woods.

Frank Z

Time to arrest the LT. for being D*ckhead in December...

MrN,
Best of luck to ya!!

MrNightly

Frank Z wrote:

Time to arrest the LT. for being D*ckhead in December...

MrN,
Best of luck to ya!!

My wife wants me to get fired for "Shooting the idiot," instead of this. Ha.

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BTW, the backstory is as follows (If anyone really cares): We have a female Sgt, who is known for always being a jokester/comidian and NEVER serious, ever. Did i mention that she's never serious? Ok, good. well anyways, we have always bantered back and forth, making fun of each other, threatening to duke it out, ect. One day, I enter dispatch to chat with the dispatcher's, and in walks this Sgt. She jokingly asks me if I signed in, which i replied jokely, "Of course." She then proceeds to chat with someone else, and i never think about it again. As i'm leaving, I realize i forgot to sign in, at which time i sign in and out. I then head home. It should be noted that it's a running joke admists officers at my work, to ask, "Did you sign in?" Everyone says it to everyone. Just remember that

Someone aparently saw that i signed in and out after telling the Sgt i had signed in, and told the LT. The LT claims I lied to the Sgt, and here we sit. I explained that i believed she was just joking around and refering to the running joke, (Which she admitted that she always jokes too) to which the Lt responds, "You're not fit to be an officer," and should be fired. So whatever. I explained to the Chief that I was just joking, and that I thought the Sgt was just joking, but i'm sure they will take the Lt's word over mind.

Such petty stupid thing to get fired over don't you think?

End Rant

MacLeod

I just cant believe that! Especially if the sgt admits to you guys always joking around in that manner.

I wouldnt take this lying down bro, Id get me a lawyer and fight.

ND13

You're freakin kidding me, right!!!! It seems to me that the LT has some serious power issues. I'd really look into getting a lawyer if I was you. Would the Sarge back you up? I'd understand if it were sexual harrassment or insubordination, but this is lame for sure. Have you ever been reprimanded before???
Get a lawyer!!! I'm sure there's one for you guys, right?? If not, there are plenty that would take the case for the publicity. Sue those ****. This is the biggest crock of **** I've ever heard. You'd think they'd want to keep a seasoned veteran.

Ricardo

Some people see it all the way around, but for me the job has always been the least important thing in my life; be it here or there, a job is just a necessary thing. Your family is the most important thing in your life, and plenty of jobs will come your way.

Merry Christmas.

MrNightly

MacLeod wrote:

I just cant believe that! Especially if the sgt admits to you guys always joking around in that manner.

I wouldnt take this lying down bro, Id get me a lawyer and fight.

No, she doesn't admit to "joking about Dispatch." But only to Joking all the way around as a person. The dispatch joking is usually between officers but i can't say she's joked with me about it before. But no, she's got to CYA, and she's saying she wasn't joking. Of course, she's the same sgt who tried to get another female fired because, get this, both are Lesbians, and the Officer didn't want a thing to do with the Sgt. Ha. So no, the Sgt will only cover her own ****, and not mine.

We do have the FOP, who i have contacted. They say this is the most incredulous excuse to fire anyone ever... so we shall see! If the Chief rules against me, we will definately see about a court case

phoneisbusy

MrNightly,

I wish you the best and stick to your guns (Figuratively speaking). That sounds extremely lame!

regards

Dave

Skynut

HTrookie wrote:

Some people see it all the way around, but for me the job has always been the least important thing in my life; be it here or there, a job is just a necessary thing. Your family is the most important thing in your life, and plenty of jobs will come your way.

Merry Christmas.

BAM!!

I work to live not live to work.