Man, I'm in pain.

amulford
amulford Posts: 5,020
edited March 2024 in Clubhouse Archives
I hurt man, A few know why, but I am **** in bad **** shape. I need some therapy, and I don't mean this in a silly way. I can't even begin how to explain. I need some help, please help, please...
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  • organ
    organ Posts: 4,969
    edited March 2005
    Dude, what happened:confused: ???

    Maurice
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  • dorokusai
    dorokusai Posts: 25,577
    edited March 2005
    Anthony - Come on down, next weekend, and get some free time.
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  • danger boy
    danger boy Posts: 15,722
    edited March 2005
    well, hope you get the help you seek. sorry i can't add more.

    i don't know what your pain is all about. If it's emotional, it's best to talk about it. If it's physical, it's best to take some good pain meds. I'm serious here. Pain meds can take some of the edge off of serioius injuries.

    good luck.
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  • mantis
    mantis Posts: 17,201
    edited March 2005
    I would also like to know whats going on.

    If I can help I offer myself.

    Dan
    Dan
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  • RuSsMaN
    RuSsMaN Posts: 17,986
    edited March 2005
    Pain pills are NOT what Anthony needs.

    He needs some sunshine, some corn bread and fresh iced tea. Take a break Anthony, get some perspective, clear your head for a while.

    Cheers,
    Russ
    Check your lips at the door woman. Shake your hips like battleships. Yeah, all the white girls trip when I sing at Sunday service.
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  • PolkThug
    PolkThug Posts: 7,532
    edited March 2005
    Pains I've been in:

    Emotional:
    Girl I dated for 4 years decides to con me out of $5000.

    Physical:
    Caught a baseball bat with my eye socket.
    Hand slammed shut in a van door.

    Regards,
    PT
    Never Forget
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  • dragon1952
    dragon1952 Posts: 4,907
    edited March 2005
    Hang in there man!
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  • Jstas
    Jstas Posts: 14,842
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by mantis
    If I can help I offer myself.

    Dan

    Oh god! If only you knew what he was talking about, you'd realize the faux pas you just made!

    It's making me chuckle!
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  • F1nut
    F1nut Posts: 50,734
    edited March 2005
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    Political Correctness'.........defined

    "A doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media, which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a t-u-r-d by the clean end."

    President of Club Polk

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  • PolkThug
    PolkThug Posts: 7,532
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by Jstas
    Oh god! If only you knew what he was talking about, you'd realize the faux pas you just made!

    It's making me chuckle!

    What, did he get neutered or something?
    Never Forget
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  • hotwheelman
    hotwheelman Posts: 1,300
    edited March 2005
    P.m. sent.
    "Its worked so far but we're not out yet."
    "Hey big man let me hold a dollar"
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  • madmax
    madmax Posts: 12,434
    edited March 2005
    The mental images here are running rampant!
    madmax
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    Avantgarde horns, 300b tubes, thats the kinda crap I want... :D
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  • amulford
    amulford Posts: 5,020
    edited March 2005
    Thank you for the kind words. It's a relationship deal, and it's hurting me badly.

    I may not have been the best, but I don't think I deserve what I'm getting. I wanted to try and get help, but I have been too busy. Now it's past the point, and there is no turning back.

    It's just real hard to see your hopes and dreams go. I am going to seek therapy, to work through some things and try to get perspective.

    Thank you for your support, it's nice to know people care, and it feels good.

    Anthony
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  • PolkThug
    PolkThug Posts: 7,532
    edited March 2005
    Its probably gonna hurt for a good year, so don't expect any quick results. I've had two painful breakups (total of 6 1/2 years wasted). But now I've got a great wife, and I would have never met her if anything happened differently.

    Regards,
    PT
    Never Forget
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  • danger boy
    danger boy Posts: 15,722
    edited March 2005
    well since Anthony doesn't need any meds. please forword them to me instead. ;)
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  • RuSsMaN
    RuSsMaN Posts: 17,986
    edited March 2005
    Hang in there Anthony.

    Change is inevitable. You can choose to resist it, or embrace it- but it's coming regardless.

    -Russ
    Check your lips at the door woman. Shake your hips like battleships. Yeah, all the white girls trip when I sing at Sunday service.
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  • amulford
    amulford Posts: 5,020
    edited March 2005
    Thank you. It's just so hard to accept the fact that the woman I wanted to spend eternity with wasn't who I thought she was.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    edited March 2005
    Well brother, hang tough. The old saying of "there's other fish in the sea", as corny as it sounds is true.

    After a 14 year marriage, I divorced. I loved her alot, but just couldn't over-look our incompatabilities any more. I thought my world was falling apart; then I met my new wife. What a breath of fresh air, that made me realize how miserable I was in my first marriage.

    Things can, and do get better; just don't let the baggage ruin you.

    Take care of yourself.
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  • PolkThug
    PolkThug Posts: 7,532
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by amulford
    It's just so hard to accept the fact that the woman I wanted to spend eternity with wasn't who I thought she was.

    I hear ya bro! Been there and done that, I thought I was gonna friggin snap when I got effed over, never could figure out what the hell I did to deserve what that %!+@# did to me.
    Never Forget
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  • MacLeod
    MacLeod Posts: 14,358
    edited March 2005
    I dont know the details but for what its worth, Ive been ripped to shreds more times than I can count and it never gets easier.

    It may not seem like it but it will get easier and this will have some benefits as in gaining experience in dealing with **** like this in the future.

    But then again I was 32 before I ever able to con a chick into marrying me so maybe Im not the best person to give relationship advice.

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  • leog
    leog Posts: 25
    edited March 2005
    Time, and friends bud.
    Let your friend and family keep you buisy. trust in them.
    pain goes away, but we never forget.
    And when you need a pick me up, Most of the regulars here are good for that.
    I spend more time reading here, than I do posting, but there is a great group of people here.
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited March 2005
    Anthony...I feel ya man. Don't know if you remember this thread, but I was pretty torn up then and I'm a million times better now. I know hearing people say that doesn't mean much, but it's nice to know people care.

    I really don't know your or your situation or even what happened, but you're a good guy for sure. Keep looking at the plus side of things and it'll work itself out.
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  • mantis
    mantis Posts: 17,201
    edited March 2005
    Life is to short man. Keep your chin up. It's better to know now then years down the road.

    Women... can't live with them can't live without them , can't kill them but they sure can kill you. The P word runs the world and don't think it's any different for any of us.

    I'm waiting on the day a woman is President. then we are all doomed.

    I don't hate women , I actually love em but damn they have the power over us.

    Dan
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  • MacLeod
    MacLeod Posts: 14,358
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by mantis
    I'm waiting on the day a woman is President. then we are all doomed.

    4 more years bro. Hillary vs Condie Rice! Its coming!

    Rice / Giuliani 08! ;)
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  • hotwheelman
    hotwheelman Posts: 1,300
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by MacLeod
    4 more years bro. Hillary vs Condie Rice! Its coming!

    Rice / Giuliani 08! ;)


    I plead the 5th on that subject.
    "Its worked so far but we're not out yet."
    "Hey big man let me hold a dollar"
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  • swerve
    swerve Posts: 1,862
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by MacLeod
    Condie Rice! Its coming!

    Rice / Giuliani 08! ;)
    why would anyone vote on something that ugly? i mean.. hillary isn't that better but atleast she is part female.... condi is just an all out beast!
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  • bobman1235
    bobman1235 Posts: 10,822
    edited March 2005
    Originally posted by swerve
    why would anyone vote on something that ugly? i mean.. hillary isn't that better but atleast she is part female.... condi is just an all out beast!

    Trying really hard to not be political here, but calling that piece of waste Hilary Clinton a FEMALE, ina ny part, is the biggest insult to the female gender that I've ever heard.

    Condy may not be a nice lookin gal, but at least she's pleasant and humanoid.
    If you will it, dude, it is no dream.
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  • MacLeod
    MacLeod Posts: 14,358
    edited March 2005
    Id vote for Condie in a second and be proud to have her as my President!

    Yeah, this isnt going to erupt into a political debate is it? ;)
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  • reeltrouble1
    reeltrouble1 Posts: 9,312
    edited March 2005
    Anthony,

    You said you know what you need. I believe you are right. Take care of yourself.

    RT1
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