Leadership

Are people born leaders or people become leaders?

Leadership consists of countless many types. Transformational, Transistional, Emergent, Servant Leader, etc.... What do you think?

A born leader has tendencies to believe in reality was determined at birth. Cruelty by definition is merely the conception by those being lead, subordinates. But they deserve it, and they must be lead.

Then you have the leader that became. From experience and understanding. Softer. But could relate.

So what is it?

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  • smglbrth
    smglbrth Posts: 1,481
    Born leaders are tyrants, "become" leaders tend to consider those lower than themselves because they were there once...
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  • smglbrth
    smglbrth Posts: 1,481
    Guess I should have answered your question as you asked it, ooops. IMO, both...
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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 1,394
    So what do you think? Are people born a leader?
    Or do they become a leader?
  • Nightfall
    Nightfall Posts: 10,086
    edited July 2015
    Like any other personality trait you can either have it from a young age or "gain" it later. Both, is my answer.
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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 1,394
    For instance. Many people will read what this thread is about, but could not respond. There are many reasons to not respond.

    A born leader will read and decide to respond. If it serves a purpose. They are always in control and must see where this may lead, if it serves their importance. If not, they will exert their control. They do not require assurance when they do respond. Confidence.

    A leader that becomes.. Can not immediately respond yet. Weighs the pros and cons. Even then, they are not sure yet. They seek assurance.

    So.what do you think? We are in a digital age hiding behind our screens. Leaders. Are they bound by screens and keyboards?

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  • PSOVLSK
    PSOVLSK Posts: 5,222
    edited July 2015
    smglbrth wrote: »
    Born leaders are tyrants, "become" leaders tend to consider those lower than themselves because they were there once...

    Some of it depends on how you define a leader. Just because someone is in a leadership position does not make them a leader. I'd say that a tyrant is not much of a leader. I've known many born leaders who were not tyrants.

    Also, a born leader often has to move up the ladder to a leadership position, thus they also were there once.

    I know that some people that have the "it" factor that people want to follow. Doesn't necessarily mean they are a good leader, just that they have great leadership qualities that came naturally to them. A former teacher once told me about my uncle, "He was the best leader this school has ever seen, he just led everyone in the wrong direction." If you knew my uncle you'd know it was an accurate statement.

    It's a complicated question. Many books written on the subject. I had a masters level class devoted to leadership and I found it to be very entertaining/enlightening listening to others views on the subject.

    My final answer: There is no correct answer.
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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 1,394
    i will paint a Broad stroke that leaders are sales people. My question is, how much of a tool are they? Reference the original question.
  • polkfarmboy
    polkfarmboy Posts: 5,703
    Nothing wrong with being a born leader as it comes from the parents. Being a leader means knowing how to be cruel and when to be kind.
  • cnh
    cnh Posts: 13,284
    edited July 2015
    There have been societies that have had NO clearly defined, nor permanent leaders. And that may have been going on longer than those more recent ones that have had leaders. So the question becomes "born" where, when?

    There are also current movements like various contemporary forms of Anarchism that eschew the concept of a leader because of the problems it entails. Preferring organization that is autonomous, voluntary, self-organizing, for the purpose of mutual aid and governing through Direct Democracy (as opposed to representational Democracy).

    Some Futurists even argue that as Technology allows for more and more decentralization and less and less governance of the usual kind we will return to more of a leaderless period. Will have less of a need for the "Leader"! I am not arguing for or against this, but it is something to consider. Whenever we pose a question we must also consider its antithesis, no?

    It also sounds like you may have had one beer too many? Why the concern with leaders? As I grow older and, not necessarily, wiser, I look back upon great leaders, I read the histories and there are always too many aporias there, always!
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  • rpf65
    rpf65 Posts: 2,127
    Depends on you definition of leadership. A leader can be appointed, but that doesn't necessarily mean he will be effective.

    Another can lead through intimidation, again doesn't mean he has any leadership ability what so ever.

    If you want to know the best type of leader, it is one who has learned the skill. He or she may not be the senior person, or the one appointed to the position, but the person who is recognized by most involved as the defacto leader none the less.

    We've all met that person, or may have been him at one time or another. The person who everybody looks at out of the corner of their eye when a situation seems to be getting out of control.

    In other words leadership is a combination of a few things. The knowledge necessary to solve the problem. The earned respect of those involved. The confidence in himself to make the call. Finally to accept the consequences of the decision.

    Effective leadership is learned. Everything else is not worth discussing.
  • F1nut
    F1nut Posts: 50,748
    You called.
    Political Correctness'.........defined

    "A doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media, which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a t-u-r-d by the clean end."


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  • aprazer402
    aprazer402 Posts: 3,149
    ^^^^ touche'. 100℅. LMAO
  • MrBuhl
    MrBuhl Posts: 2,419
    rpf65 wrote: »
    Depends on you definition of leadership. A leader can be appointed, but that doesn't necessarily mean he will be effective.

    Effective leadership is learned. Everything else is not worth discussing.

    ^^ This ^^ for me is it - I tell young managers "leaders" all the time, you cannot command respect, you have to earn it. Some leaders are born, but good leadership is earned and created.

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  • [Deleted User]
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    Thanks guys. I have been reading my case studies from many years ago. It is interesting to see leadership change with the evolving work place.
  • tonyb
    tonyb Posts: 33,008
    xcapri79 wrote: »
    Nothing wrong with being a born leader as it comes from the parents. Being a leader means knowing how to be cruel and when to be kind.
    Cruelty has no proper place in society, let alone parenting or leadership.

    care to explain that one
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  • tonyb
    tonyb Posts: 33,008
    edited July 2015
    xcapri79 wrote: »
    Nothing wrong with being a born leader as it comes from the parents. Being a leader means knowing how to be cruel and when to be kind.
    Cruelty has no proper place in society, let alone parenting or leadership.

    ooops, double post.
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  • tophatjohnny
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    Two words that led me to the top of every sales position I have ever held (and made a crapload of money using these 2 words........are ya ready????????????...........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Follow Me!!!
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  • tonyb
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    Two words that led me to the top of every sales position I have ever held (and made a crapload of money using these 2 words........are ya ready????????????...........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Follow Me!!!

    Last time I listened to those 2 words i woke up with horrible hangover, next to an ugly chick 2 states away.
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  • Moose68Bash
    Moose68Bash Posts: 3,843
    A leader is anybody who gets good things done with the help of others whom he/he has enlisted for the purpose.

    Born? Made? Who cares?

    Note that I said "good" things. Hitler was not a leader, for example.
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  • Polkie2009
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    Two words that led me to the top of every sales position I have ever held (and made a crapload of money using these 2 words........are ya ready????????????...........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Follow Me!!!
    Speaking of sales, I thought the 2 words you were going to say were , " How many"? as in how many do you want to buy?

  • PSOVLSK
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    A leader is anybody who gets good things done with the help of others whom he/he has enlisted for the purpose.

    Born? Made? Who cares?

    Note that I said "good" things. Hitler was not a leader, for example.
    I'd love to agree with this, but I have to respectfully disagree. I believe you can be a "bad" leader, as in not using your leadership skills for good. Extreme example would be Charles Manson. Imagine if he had used his leadership ability for good. As I mentioned in my earlier post, my uncle was a leader, but not a good one. People followed him naturally, but unfortunately he was leading them into places that were not productive.
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  • PSOVLSK
    PSOVLSK Posts: 5,222
    xcapri79 wrote: »
    Nothing wrong with being a born leader as it comes from the parents. Being a leader means knowing how to be cruel and when to be kind.
    Cruelty has no proper place in society, let alone parenting or leadership.


    I hope he meant "stern" instead of cruel.
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  • sucks2beme
    sucks2beme Posts: 5,606
    Stalin was a great but cruel leader. He took a country from nothing
    to a world power. Let's face it. A large number of the world's great leaders
    were rotten human beings. Guys like Gandii are few and far between.
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  • Ron Temple
    Ron Temple Posts: 3,212
    My **** itches sometimes...I lead my fingers to scratch it...therefore I'm a leader...bow down before me. The thread is sophist bullsh*t.

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  • Ron Temple
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    Can't even type sphinc...ter...on this forum any more.

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  • txcoastal1
    txcoastal1 Posts: 13,324
    edited July 2015
    Ron Temple wrote: »
    Can't even type sphinc...ter...on this forum any more.
    Not even chickenbreast

    watch chicken breast

    what....tried dove breast the other day and it got bleeped....hmmmm

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  • Ron Temple
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    Well that came through...but not the overwhelming reasons for this thread...lol.

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  • kevhed72
    kevhed72 Posts: 5,066
    edited July 2015
    I was once in a corporate warm & fuzzy course about leadership....the instructors asked us for examples of great leaders from history. My example was Hitler - although a terrible human being, an extremely effective leader.
    Needless to say, my example didn't go ever well with the instructors - they couldn't get off the subject quick enough after that.
  • tonyb
    tonyb Posts: 33,008
    Leadership....that's someone you trust to make competent decisions about stuff you know nothing about. How to achieve a goal that you have no idea how to achieve.....good or bad.

    Say what you will about Hitler, but he was a leader, to bad ends though. He got a whole nation behind him, off a cliff no doubt, but they were all moving in one direction.

    To be a leader, one needs confidence, patience, goals, knowledge of how to achieve those goals, adaptability, powers of persuasion. Good or evil makes no difference, the requirements for leadership applies to both.

    Of course it also requires someone who needs/wants to be led. A leader with no followers is just another bossy pants.
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  • Moose68Bash
    Moose68Bash Posts: 3,843
    PSOVLSK wrote: »
    A leader is anybody who gets good things done with the help of others whom he/he has enlisted for the purpose.

    Born? Made? Who cares?

    Note that I said "good" things. Hitler was not a leader, for example.
    I'd love to agree with this, but I have to respectfully disagree. I believe you can be a "bad" leader, as in not using your leadership skills for good. Extreme example would be Charles Manson. Imagine if he had used his leadership ability for good. As I mentioned in my earlier post, my uncle was a leader, but not a good one. People followed him naturally, but unfortunately he was leading them into places that were not productive.

    There's a difference between a "leader" and a "charlatan."

    Both can be extraordinarily effective in enlisting followers to achieve goals, worthy or not.

    The former is a leader because his/her goals are for the betterment of those who follow.

    The latter is a charlatan because his goals are a fraud, a hoax, an illusion that he/she makes appear attractive to impressionable and misguided people to fulfill his egotistical ends.

    Among the former are Ghandi, Lincoln, Christ (in my humble opinion), Churchill.

    Among the latter are Hitler, Stalin, Pol Pot, Ghengis Kahn, to name only a few of the monsters of human history.

    PS: Mr. Temple, if discussions like this are not "your cup of tea," you can respectfully ignore them without denigrating those who participate "in good faith" and happen to disagree with your personal opinion.
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