It's a rough time for Cathy and I

pumpkinman
pumpkinman Posts: 9,901
edited January 2014 in The Clubhouse
To start off with my father is in the hospital with a bleeder in his head. This is more than likely due to a fall he had at my house on Christmas Day. It must have been bleeding in his head since that day and no one knew. On Friday my youngest sister called him to see how he was doing and he couldn't put 2 words together. Now to Sunday, he's in Overlook hospital and will need neurosurgery or he will most surely die. The problem is he's been on blood thinners for years and we are told if they do the surgery now he could bleed out and perish. The plan is to keep an eye on him for 5 to 7 days to allow the Plavix time to leave his system before they attempt the surgery.

Now to Cathy's mom,

Cathy's mom has been in surgery twice in the past few days trying to get a pace maker to work. What was once thought to dementia is now believed to have been many small strokes. Once she has
completed rehab she will unfortunately need to go straight to nursing home.

Needless to say we are both very stressed out at the moment.

Bill
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  • Willow
    Willow Posts: 11,060
    edited January 2014
    My thoughts are with you and your families during these tough times.
  • NJPOLKER
    NJPOLKER Posts: 3,474
    edited January 2014
    Oh my Bill you sure need some prayers and wishes and we are the guys to help.

    A good thing is that Overlook is a good hospital so care should be good. Ya gotta keep the faith somehow and listening to some tunes may help. Best of luck and please let us know if we can help.
  • thsmith
    thsmith Posts: 6,082
    edited January 2014
    Sorry to hear Bill, don't let the stress come between you and Cathy.
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  • mhardy6647
    mhardy6647 Posts: 33,995
    edited January 2014
    Tough stuff for a family to bear - the stress of the "holiday season" does seem to exacerbate events like these. We'll keep your family in our prayers at the Hardy household.
  • heartystatue
    heartystatue Posts: 329
    edited January 2014
    Hey P-Man, Sorry to hear about all the stress in your life right now. I don't think anyone can prepare for times like these. Stay strong. Thought's and prayers to you and your family.
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  • boston1450
    boston1450 Posts: 7,676
    edited January 2014
    Sorry to hear all the hard times. Hang in there Bill. Our prayers go out to you. Randy
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  • drumminman
    drumminman Posts: 3,396
    edited January 2014
    Man, that's a heavy load. Hope things improve for both your father and Cathy's mom.
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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited January 2014
    Best wishes to you and your family.
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  • dromunds
    dromunds Posts: 10,029
    edited January 2014
    Best thoughts to you, bro.
  • Pycroft
    Pycroft Posts: 1,960
    edited January 2014
    Bill,

    All my best. It's tough times here as well, so I sympathize.

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  • george daniel
    george daniel Posts: 12,096
    edited January 2014
    Been there too-- in my prayers.. stay strong.
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  • hochpt21
    hochpt21 Posts: 5,423
    edited January 2014
    Stay strong P-man. If you can bear the load, things will for sure improve soon.
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  • Oldfatdogs
    Oldfatdogs Posts: 1,874
    edited January 2014
    Thoughts and prayers coming your way.

    Dan
  • deronb1
    deronb1 Posts: 5,021
    edited January 2014
    Sorry to hear. Stay strong for one and other
  • pumpkinman
    pumpkinman Posts: 9,901
    edited January 2014
    I would like to thank everyone for their kind thoughts and prayers

    My sister sent me a text that he's doing better and they've taken him out of the ICU
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  • Geoff4rfc
    Geoff4rfc Posts: 2,480
    edited January 2014
    Great news!! Blessings and peace to you and your families!
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  • cnh
    cnh Posts: 13,284
    edited January 2014
    Rough times there. Hope you can come out the other side; better, happier, stronger! Best wishes for you and yours!

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  • xjghost
    xjghost Posts: 1,105
    edited January 2014
    GL to them both. Hope it all turns out in their favor.
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  • scottyboy76
    scottyboy76 Posts: 2,905
    edited January 2014
    Will pray for you and yours, as well as the caregivers, that their hands are guided to heal your loved ones.
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  • drumminman
    drumminman Posts: 3,396
    edited January 2014
    pumpkinman wrote: »
    My sister sent me a text that he's doing better and they've taken him out of the ICU

    That's good news!
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  • tonyb
    tonyb Posts: 33,014
    edited January 2014
    Sorry to hear this man, will keep you in my prayers brother. God speed for a full recovery for both.
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  • polkfarmboy
    polkfarmboy Posts: 5,703
    edited January 2014
    Horrible situation.
  • Mike Reeter
    Mike Reeter Posts: 4,315
    edited January 2014
    It's a bitter pill to swallow when your parents come of a certain age. Hang tough.
  • gudnoyez
    gudnoyez Posts: 8,132
    edited January 2014
    Sad news indeed but hopefully things will turn around prayers sent.
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  • westmassguy
    westmassguy Posts: 6,850
    edited January 2014
    Prayers for all. It's tough, been there myself with my Grandmother and my Mom.
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  • schwarcw
    schwarcw Posts: 7,341
    edited January 2014
    Bill, prayers to you and Cathy as your family is facing some difficult time. I pray that your dad and Cathy's mom can recover and get to a better state of health.
    Carl

  • xsmi
    xsmi Posts: 1,798
    edited January 2014
    Prayers to you both. Hang in there and keep us posted.
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  • headrott
    headrott Posts: 5,496
    edited January 2014
    First let me say I am glad your did is doing better Bill. I am sorry to hear he is having trouble and pray that both your dad and Cathy's mom will pull through and be healthy. My prayers go to both of your parents Bill and Cathy. Take care.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    edited January 2014
    Prayers and best wishes Bill.
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  • potee
    potee Posts: 610
    edited January 2014
    I'm hoping that things take a turn for the better. Keep your chin up.