Debs back in pain

scottyboy76
scottyboy76 Posts: 2,905
edited November 2012 in The Clubhouse
One of the places My debbies cancer has spread is her spine, just spent a couple hours laying in bed rubbing her spine and hip.

Dont know why i get on an audio website and unload this suff, but she is on the phone in the back and i am crying my eyes out as i type.

I really dont have anyone to talk to, and many of you have been so kind and know what she is going through.

Prayers and good thoughts are always so appreciated.

Please dont feel obligated to respond to this, i believe in prayer and good loving karma, and i sometimes just have to let someone know what my wonderful little wife is battling.

Thank you all.
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  • hochpt21
    hochpt21 Posts: 5,423
    edited October 2012
    Scottyboy, I don't know you or Deb, but from my short time here, I know that you are both very strong. Hang in there. Keep fighting. I will send good thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • tonyb
    tonyb Posts: 32,957
    edited October 2012
    Prayers sent.....lots of them. Best wishes for you and yours to conquer this. Keep a healthy upbeat mind, and hopefully the body will follow.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    edited October 2012
    Talk away buddy, moral support is here. Bev & I will do some extra praying this evening; can't imagine life without my wife, and truely feel for you man--you've got a ton of courage. God Bless, and keep a positive attitude, she'll benefit from it.

    Tell Deb there's nothing but LOVE and HOPE coming from the Rose household.
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  • cowtrimmer
    cowtrimmer Posts: 201
    edited October 2012
    My thoughts are with you and your family in this time of need.
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  • scottyboy76
    scottyboy76 Posts: 2,905
    edited October 2012
    Thanks guys, I pulled it together before deb saw me, always feel i have to be strong for her, even though she is far stronger than i will ever be.

    Because of her terrible scoliosis at birth, her left eye, inner ear, lung and kidney never developed, she had two major surgerys as a small child and spent months in the hospital in atlanta, mostly alone, much of it in traction, with surgically attached pins in her knees and a halo in her head.

    the doctors told her family she would never live to 10 years old, she has only beaten that by 43 years.

    There are so many other storys of terrible health problems, cruelty from other kids because of her spinal deformation, shortened leg and everything, and, like anyone with such problems, the pain of seeing life events pass you by,things like having kids, working a job, wearing any clothes you want without constant self conciousness.

    But i would rather tell you all the wonderful storys of her inner and outer beauty, her pure pure love for others, and the wonderful, supportive family she has always been surrounded by.

    She has always known how many people truly loved her, and so many have helped her through life.

    We met, appropriately enough, at the doctors office, i just saw a beautiful girl sitting there, little did i know within three months we would be married, that was thirteen years ago nov.1st.

    There has been far more laughter than crying, i have been so blessed.

    The knowledge of what is in store for her is always there, just some huge awful thing behind you, you keep your eyes straight ahead, because when you do turn your head and look at it, it just descends on you and breaks you right in two, I dont mean to sound dramatic, but it really is like that, i dont care what ends up happening to me in life, but i would give absolutely anything to take this off her.

    Thanks to all, and let me know if i can pray for you and yours, rest assured we will.

    I think im gonna go take a walk in these beautiful mountains, it always seems to help.
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  • Oldfatdogs
    Oldfatdogs Posts: 1,874
    edited October 2012
    Hello Scotty,good thoughts and prayers sent your way,hang in there.
    Dan
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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited October 2012
    Keep on keepin on Scotty, you be there for your Debs and we will be here for you!
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    Man I sure feel for ya, and can relate. Though not my wife, I have been through cancer with my Grandma, my Aunt and my Mom. My half brother had a brain tumor when he was around 3, and it was like a restart for him. He was ridiculed in school, for the "baseball stitching" on the back of his head, and he was also shorter than everyone else, and learned a little slower. This past year he had another tumor removed, and is now being seen because of another one that is causing seizures. He's a strong little bugger. My point is I understand how you feel, and will always be here for a polkie. I might not be ale to help financially, but I'm always a PM away if you need to talk, cry, or just to vent, hell you can even use caps lock if it will help. Take care of your woman, but don't forget about yourself either. Your family here is only a few clicks away.
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  • EndersShadow
    EndersShadow Posts: 17,590
    edited October 2012
    Scotty:

    Like you I on occasion unload about crap going on in my life here when I dont talk to anyone but my wife about it (including family).

    I will tell you faith, prayer, music and laughter can heal and will give you the prayers, attempt to provide the laughter and do whatever I can on the other two.

    Thought go with you brother!
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  • Systems
    Systems Posts: 14,873
    edited October 2012
    Like you I on occasion unload about crap going on in my life here

    Yep, I hear ya Dan.
    I talk with at least 1 person on this forum everyday (it seems).
    Have for the last couple of years, everyday or otherday.
    Good friends on this forum that I can talk to everyday about everyday problems, or triumphs!

    Best to Deb, and you Scotty.
    Hope all turns out for the best!
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  • halo71
    halo71 Posts: 4,602
    edited October 2012
    Scotty, talk away bro! You still have my number? Feel free to call. Best wishes to you both.
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  • TNHNDYMAN
    TNHNDYMAN Posts: 2,145
    edited October 2012
    Praying for you both Scott. Deb sends her prayers as well. Let us know if we can help in any way. Try to talk to you soon and I hope you have a good anniversary. Trav
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  • zane77
    zane77 Posts: 1,696
    edited October 2012
    Thoughts and prayers headed your way, Happy Anniversary!
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  • bmbguy
    bmbguy Posts: 416
    edited October 2012
    You can count on our prayers Scotty. Have a wonderful anniversary!
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  • Conradicles
    Conradicles Posts: 6,080
    edited October 2012
    God bless man...hang in there!
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  • Upstatemax
    Upstatemax Posts: 2,664
    edited October 2012
    I'm sorry to hear about what your family has to deal with.

    Nothing crushes you like watching a loved one suffer and knowing you can't take the pain away for them...

    Everyone needs to vent and release, this is agreat place to do it. A lot of wonderful people on this forum.

    I wish you guys the best of luck.
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  • scottyboy76
    scottyboy76 Posts: 2,905
    edited October 2012
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother
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  • schwarcw
    schwarcw Posts: 7,335
    edited October 2012
    Prayers for Deb and you Scotty! I pray she can find some relief from the pain.
    Carl

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  • bobsauto49
    bobsauto49 Posts: 973
    edited October 2012
    GodSpeed Bro! Best of luck and prayers for your family!!!
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  • disneyjoe7
    disneyjoe7 Posts: 11,435
    edited October 2012
    Stay positive for her, many thoughts and prays sent your way.

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  • Sherardp
    Sherardp Posts: 8,038
    edited October 2012
    Thoughts and prayers sent bro. Pray you both make it through just fine man.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    scottyboy76 wrote: »
    Thank you all so much

    Dude, im praying for you and your brother

    Don't make this about me, this is your thread for your needs. I do a appreciate it though. I'm positive, my brother is positive. Like I said he's a strong little bugger, as well as determined and stubborn. I sending as much good karma I can your way. And will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
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  • dudeinaroom
    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    See below
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    dudeinaroom Posts: 3,609
    edited October 2012
    See below
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