Some good thoughts needed

Fireman32
Fireman32 Posts: 4,845
edited February 2008 in The Clubhouse
I got a call from my dad last night to tell me that my mom has cancer. She had a pollop removed last year from her bladder and they said it was gone but she would have to be watched. Well now it seems that she has had a few more appear and requires surgery to have it removed and is much more serios then before.

My mom is not taking it to well and my dad is doing the best he can.

Thanks for listening everyone. I needed to get this off my chest.
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  • hearingimpared
    hearingimpared Posts: 21,137
    edited February 2008
    Bro all our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your mom and dad. Ya never know with pollops, most of the time they are benign.
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  • daboyz
    daboyz Posts: 5,207
    edited February 2008
    Thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,536
    edited February 2008
    Prayers & blessings sent to Mom & Dad.
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  • apc
    apc Posts: 779
    edited February 2008
    May He keep your parents in one hand the guide the doctors with the other.
    Husband, Father, Son, Brother, Friend.
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  • ohskigod
    ohskigod Posts: 6,502
    edited February 2008
    dude, that blows

    you know you can talk to that has had some experience in this. ears are open brotha.

    stay focused and take it day by day, DO NOT panic about the what ifs, this goes for you, dad, and mom. easier said than done of course.

    call me when you get out of work or when you can.
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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited February 2008
    Sending good thoughts your parents way.
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  • TroyD
    TroyD Posts: 13,077
    edited February 2008
    What Joe said, been through this with the polyps and the tend to be benign.

    Prayers for you and yours, bro.

    BDT
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  • Ricardo
    Ricardo Posts: 10,636
    edited February 2008
    Prayers sent.
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  • treitz3
    treitz3 Posts: 18,982
    edited February 2008
    Best wishes flyin' in to you from Charlotte bud. I want to hear about a positive update when you visit in March. ;)
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  • phoneisbusy
    phoneisbusy Posts: 867
    edited February 2008
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Fireman32.

    regards

    Dave
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  • mrbigbluelight
    mrbigbluelight Posts: 9,675
    edited February 2008
    As oskigod said, take it one day at a time, try not to worry about what may happen, deal with what is the best you can.

    Prayers for you and your family.
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  • george daniel
    george daniel Posts: 12,096
    edited February 2008
    I'll keep them and you in my prayers,,hoping for the best.
    JC approves....he told me so. (F-1 nut)
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  • janmike
    janmike Posts: 6,146
    edited February 2008
    You have our thoughts and prayers Dave.
    Michael ;)
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  • ben62670
    ben62670 Posts: 15,969
    edited February 2008
    Prayers sent for you, and your family.
    Please. Please contact me a ben62670 @ yahoo.com. Make sure to include who you are, and you are from Polk so I don't delete your email. Also I am now physically unable to work on any projects. If you need help let these guys know. There are many people who will help if you let them know where you are.
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  • obieone
    obieone Posts: 5,077
    edited February 2008
    Best wishes to you, and your family.
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  • BAD ASP
    BAD ASP Posts: 361
    edited February 2008
    Moms are the most special people on the planet. Prayers for your mom and your family.
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  • wingnut4772
    wingnut4772 Posts: 7,519
    edited February 2008
    Prayers going out.
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  • vonnie123
    vonnie123 Posts: 326
    edited February 2008
    Lost mine four years ago this month. My thoughts are with you....
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  • George Grand
    George Grand Posts: 12,258
    edited February 2008
    Best wishes man.
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  • pearsall001
    pearsall001 Posts: 5,065
    edited February 2008
    Sorry to hear the news. Just keep the faith & all will work out. Your mom is in my prayers. Stay positive!
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  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited February 2008
    Prayers for your mom, you, your dad, and the rest of the family. I hope she makes a full recovery.
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  • Mike Kozak
    Mike Kozak Posts: 931
    edited February 2008
    Prayers sent.
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  • Fireman32
    Fireman32 Posts: 4,845
    edited February 2008
    Thanks for all of the well wishes everyone. Im taking everyones advice and not panicing over this.
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  • Fireman32
    Fireman32 Posts: 4,845
    edited February 2008
    Update. My mom went to the specialist and it looks like surgury is the next step. The feeling that I got from my dad is that they are going to have to remove her bladder all together to try to remove the cancer. This will probably be happening in the next week or two. I'm trying not to freak out over this as her Dr had a great reputation.
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  • engtaz
    engtaz Posts: 7,663
    edited February 2008
    Prayer sent and God bless.

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  • Strong Bad
    Strong Bad Posts: 4,277
    edited February 2008
    Hang in there and try to stay positive!
    No excuses!
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