Still heartbroken...

ken brydson
ken brydson Posts: 8,779
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A week ago today we said goodbye to our sweet pup Abby. She was the best dog, so well behaved and loved by everyone.

She seemed to be in good health, getting a little slow at 11 years old with 2 repaired ACL's but active and good appetite. A week prior to her passing she all of a sudden lost appetite and was really lethargic. Took her to the vet, blood tests and Xrays. The Xrays were inconclusive but the blood work showed very low red blood cell count. Next step was ultrasound which revealed large inoperable tumors on her adrenal glands. We thought we could keep her around (selfishly) with meds but she regressed quickly to the point of losing control of her bowels and zero energy, all in the space of less than a week.

This post is not intended as a pity party for me but a reminder to cherish every moment with your beloved pets....
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  • voltz
    voltz Posts: 5,384
    Awesome pic, thanks for sharing!
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  • motorhead43026
    motorhead43026 Posts: 3,904
    edited October 2017
    We have a dog that is 17 years old, he is in the twilight of his life. I can't help but dread that day.

    Sounds like you have found comfort in the memories.

    The best way to predict the future is to invent it.

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  • Dabutcher
    Dabutcher Posts: 2,597
    Sounds like you were truly blessed by her sharing her life with you. Take care. D
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  • ken brydson
    ken brydson Posts: 8,779
    motorhead43026 wrote: »
    We have a dog that is 17 years old, he is in the twilight of his life. I can't help but dread that day.

    Sounds like you have found comfort in the memories.

    Trying, it's hard.
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  • msg
    msg Posts: 10,240
    Awww man, I'm really sorry to hear this, Ken. Been through it a few times and it's gut wrenching, sad and painful beyond words having to let them go. The feelings of helplessness, when you'd give damn near anything to save them... Feeling for you guys, man.

    What a happy beautiful girl. There's nothing like a dog's spirit... Hang in there.
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  • kharp1
    kharp1 Posts: 3,453
    Hang in there, I know it's tough letting them go. They love us unconditionally and ask for so little in return.
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  • Toolfan66
    Toolfan66 Posts: 17,329
    Sorry to hear this Ken, I love our pets and I’m not looking forward to those days..
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  • motorhead43026
    motorhead43026 Posts: 3,904
    edited October 2017
    Yep, a dog is the only animal on this planet that loves you more than it loves itself.
    The best way to predict the future is to invent it.

    It is imperative that we recognize that an opinion is not a fact.
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  • pitdogg2
    pitdogg2 Posts: 25,661
    edited October 2017
    Remember this. Ken you gave that dog the best life it could ever have. It's so hard to let go trust me i know.
    Condolences
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  • FestYboy
    FestYboy Posts: 3,861
    :'( my sympathies, I know when I loose my oldest I'm gonna be a mess. Good pets bring out the best in us.
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  • daboyz
    daboyz Posts: 5,207
    So sorry. Be well.
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  • Tony M
    Tony M Posts: 11,184
    edited October 2017
    Sorry about your loss.

    I think dogs are named dogs for a reason. GOD spelled backwards is DOG. Such a close comparison in spelling and what each does us. They LOVE us till the end.

    Time heals all wounds. It's hard at first for sure.
    Think of the good times you had with Abby.
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  • vmaxer
    vmaxer Posts: 5,117
    They are family, we have some and I really dread that day.

    RIP Abby.
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  • txcoastal1
    txcoastal1 Posts: 13,318
    edited October 2017
    Not much to say Ken except I'm sorry,
    It hurts
    Great pic
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  • oldrocker
    oldrocker Posts: 2,590
    Sorry for your pain. 8 years ago I took "brown dog" as I called took to the vet.

    She was better known as Mugsy.

    Vet did the tests, gave the bad news, left the room in tears and I just petted her for a while.

    It will sound crazy but she had a facial expression knowing what was coming and I swear by that facial expression, she let me know she was ready not to hurt anymore and that it was ok and the best thing to do.
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  • mrloren
    mrloren Posts: 2,465
    I know what you are going through and it's hard. Sorry for your loss brother.

    When I was about 3 years old we got a crazy Weimaraner. When I was 17 she had passed. She was a great dog and even better friend. I have almost refused to get another dog ever since. That hurt me so bad I don't want to go through it again.
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  • aprazer402
    aprazer402 Posts: 3,149
    Sorry to hear about your Abby. You gave her a great life and she enjoyed it. All the best. Are you considering a new one?
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  • starkiller
    starkiller Posts: 2,723
    Ken

    So sorry to hear of this:( Pets give us their best for the short time they are here. Be sure on down the road you give another dog the chance to shine!
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    Sorry to hear this Ken, those darn cold noses put smiles on your face.
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  • scubalab
    scubalab Posts: 3,103
    Ken - so sorry for your loss. Pets are family and a loss like this is always difficult. Sincere condolences. RIP Abby.
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  • Mikey081057
    Mikey081057 Posts: 7,127
    edited October 2017
    Sorry to hear Ken.

    Many of us know your pain.

    All dogs go to heaven and Abby will be there waiting for you.
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  • Manticore
    Manticore Posts: 408
    So sorry to hear this. 11 years of love and loyalty from her. My heart goes out to you & your family for your loss.
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  • mhardy6647
    mhardy6647 Posts: 33,964
    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's tough.
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  • machone
    machone Posts: 1,513
    Sorry for your loss. My last dog stole my heart. Very hard day when she passed. Time does heal the wound.
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  • muncybob
    muncybob Posts: 3,064
    Losing a loved one is always tough. We've gone through this several times over the years and it's never easy. My wife insists we look for another 4 legged friend after a short period of grieving and it actually does help a bit. It helps our surviving dog too(we have always had 2 dogs). But, I still miss some of our buddies like it happened last week even though they have been long gone. You are right Ken, cherish the moments while you have them and never forget them.
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  • EndersShadow
    EndersShadow Posts: 17,596
    Sorry man. When that time comes for our 3 dogs its gonna be tough, especially my Corgi Fox since he's been with me through too much to mention.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    Feel bad for you man. It's tough losing a pet. Soon, the sad memories will be replaced with the good memories. Hang in there.

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  • WagnerRC
    WagnerRC Posts: 2,161
    sorry for your loss Ken. It sucks for sure.
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    polrbehr Posts: 2,834
    I'm sorry to hear about this Ken, thoughts and prayers to your family.
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  • MrBuhl
    MrBuhl Posts: 2,419
    That's a great looking pic to remember her by, but I know how sad those days are, sorry to hear it.
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