The Flame Forum

pixiedave
pixiedave Posts: 227
edited February 2024 in Clubhouse Archives
With an idea by Polkmaniac and the nastiness being exibited on this fine forum lately, I have set up a Flame Pitt. Anything and Everything goes. You can find it here.
Lets keep Club Polk friendly and informative. This forum is for the spreading of ideas, information and stories about audio and home theater. If you just need to be a rabble rouser, or want to vent try The polk Flame Forum.
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  • PhantomOG
    PhantomOG Posts: 2,409
    edited April 2004
    not saying its a bad idea or anything, but if there's some idiot(s) here who can't seem to follow rules, i doubt they're going to follow a rule that says to go someplace else if you don't want to follow the rules.

    does that make sense??? :D

    "Nothing much to say, when you're high above the mucky-muck"
  • AsSiMiLaTeD
    AsSiMiLaTeD Posts: 11,728
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by PhantomOG
    not saying its a bad idea or anything, but if there's some idiot(s) here who can't seem to follow rules, i doubt they're going to follow a rule that says to go someplace else if you don't want to follow the rules.

    does that make sense??? :D

    "Nothing much to say, when you're high above the mucky-muck"
    True, but people today don't really have an option if they have something to get out...this at least provides an option...
  • pixiedave
    pixiedave Posts: 227
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by PhantomOG
    not saying its a bad idea or anything, but if there's some idiot(s) here who can't seem to follow rules, i doubt they're going to follow a rule that says to go someplace else if you don't want to follow the rules.

    does that make sense??? :D

    "Nothing much to say, when you're high above the mucky-muck"
    True, you do make sense, I am not really expecting any amount of traffic here, i just was reading the apology forum and Polkmaniacs idea. As i have a website, on a server in my house, It literally took me two minutes to install the forum. www.teapottraveler.com does not get much traffic since I took down over 300gigs of music, so it just sits there. It is no sweat off my back, and now theres a place to vent if anybody needs it. And its cool, the first post on it has the fword. Perfect!
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  • AsSiMiLaTeD
    AsSiMiLaTeD Posts: 11,728
    edited April 2004
    Guys, this just provides a place to have those heated discussions...

    There will always be things that people don't agree on, and sometimes these debates get a little out of hand becuase we all feel so passionately about our thoughts and ideas.

    The problem today is that there's no where for a headed debate to go, and human nature dictates that most people aren't just going to bakc down, therefore the HOS type threads...too many thoughts with no better place to go.

    All this does is create an environment for those discussions...

    This isn't a place to go just to start bashing someone...but it's for those threads that somehow get out of hand, much like the situation we had last night...
  • dorokusai
    dorokusai Posts: 25,577
    edited April 2004
    I am joining for sure.

    Hey Dave....if I was to provide webspace, that I would pay for, would you build the website? I would like to get another McGowan type site going, and have it for everyones reference. What would be your thoughts?
    CTC BBQ Amplifier, Sonic Frontiers Line3 Pre-Amplifier and Wadia 581 SACD player. Speakers? Always changing but for now, Mission Argonauts I picked up for $50 bucks, mint.
  • AsSiMiLaTeD
    AsSiMiLaTeD Posts: 11,728
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by pixiedave
    True, you do make sense, I am not really expecting any amount of traffic here, i just was reading the apology forum and Polkmaniacs idea. As i have a website, on a server in my house, It literally took me two minutes to install the forum. www.teapottraveler.com does not get much traffic since I took down over 300gigs of music, so it just sits there. It is no sweat off my back, and now theres a place to vent if anybody needs it. And its cool, the first post on it has the fword. Perfect!
    I don't know man...I think this may catch on...

    Or maybe this will turn out like some of my other ideas and end in nothing...
  • TroyD
    TroyD Posts: 13,086
    edited April 2004
    You know, Rush Limbaugh sent me a PM a few weeks ago, and like a slug, I haven't given him the courtesy of a reply but he said he could help with the technical aspects.

    That said, I'd caution against abandoning ship altogether. The forum has it's ups and downs and so forth but remember, it's what we as a group, make it.

    That and Polk has, IMO, been and is a more than gracious host and has done a lot of favors for it's members. I, personally, will not abandon Club Polk out of a pure sense of loyalty

    Just food for thought guys.

    BDT
    I plan for the future. - F1Nut
  • dorokusai
    dorokusai Posts: 25,577
    edited April 2004
    My objective is to not abandon this place, but have a location for information.

    The vintage gear is all but lost as far as a reference here, and SDA information is non-existent, but for the fine Polk members' contributions. Is Ken supposed to be the constant source of what could be plain public information? I think the McGowan Bros. idea was sound and viable, why not create that interest again? It used to be THE place for SDA information.
    CTC BBQ Amplifier, Sonic Frontiers Line3 Pre-Amplifier and Wadia 581 SACD player. Speakers? Always changing but for now, Mission Argonauts I picked up for $50 bucks, mint.
  • TroyD
    TroyD Posts: 13,086
    edited April 2004
    I hear ya Mark and I'm not disagreeing....

    All I'm saying is that I caution folks about getting TOO spun up and making a mass exodus. If we behave like adults and so forth, we can clean up the forum and make it better than ever.

    BDT
    I plan for the future. - F1Nut
  • dorokusai
    dorokusai Posts: 25,577
    edited April 2004
    Totally agree :)
    CTC BBQ Amplifier, Sonic Frontiers Line3 Pre-Amplifier and Wadia 581 SACD player. Speakers? Always changing but for now, Mission Argonauts I picked up for $50 bucks, mint.
  • pixiedave
    pixiedave Posts: 227
    edited April 2004
    Not trying to get anyone to leave Club Polk, I want the opposite! The Flame room is just a place hopefully to keep Club Polk a friendly informative place!
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  • PolkWannabie
    PolkWannabie Posts: 2,763
    edited April 2004
    Personally I see the rules as being for the most part fine assuming of course they are enforced the same way for all.

    P.S. I see no particular distinction between saying eff you or some variation of that and spelling it out ... There's a lot better ways to get ones point across than resorting to the typical four letter vocabulary or some abbreviation of it.
  • Tour2ma
    Tour2ma Posts: 10,177
    edited April 2004
    A place we can go to work out issues??? BRILLIANT! ... and it's got Avatars to boot.

    Agree with your sentiments, Troy. Not going anywhere either, generally too comfortable here. Feel like I am "vested" here. But a time comes everyones way where they get rubbed the wrong way and adult hood is suspended, at least temporarily.
    More later,
    Tour...
    Vox Copuli
    Better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. - Old English Proverb

    "Death doesn't come with a Uhaul." - Dennis Gardner

    "It's easy to get lost in price vs performance vs ego vs illusion." - doro
    "There is a certain entertainment value in ripping the occaisonal (sic) buttmunch..." - TroyD
  • Jstas
    Jstas Posts: 14,842
    edited April 2004
    Simple rule to follow folks. If you are angry about a post from someone else and you are heated and ready to respond with a flaming pile of poo just stop and think "Would I say/do this to this guy/girl if I was face to face with them?" If you have any inkling of a doubt or hesitation towards no then either find a different/nicer way to say it or don't say it at all.

    No need for a flame forum if people would just give some common respect and courtesy to thier fellow man and stop acting like such a "big man" and so on and so forth. Some of us may have that kind of attitude for real and they are secure enough in themselves to honestly say what they feel or think about a situation. That is fine and dandy because you know what? It takes all kinds. What those who are that way should remember is that not everyone can appreciate that kind of approach and to use discretion.

    We are all human and we will all lose it some time. If you are in a heated argument with someone, continually taunting them even after they have become livid with you is not the way to go about doing things. Taunting people for sport is just plain pathetic and sadistic. For those that have harsh tempers, learn to count to ten and walk away. The thing everyone should remember is that we all have a breaking point. If you are going to push someone to thier breaking point for whatever reason then you must be fully prepared for all consequences. If you don't like getting banned or chastised by your fellow members or laughed at and such then don't go there and do the best you can to stay away from that point.

    Last point and then I will shut up. Laughing at people and berating them just because you don't like them or had a bad experience with them is not going to do you or anyone else any good. If you have something to say, make your point and walk away. This isn't grade school playground. There is no need to pick on any one person for anything. Sometimes people can do some seriously stupid and/or disrespectful things but harping about it to no end only makes you stay angry and alienates someone who may have made a mistake and doesn't realize it because the rage caused by thier anger is clouding thier judgement.

    We're all human, people. We are all equals, try to treat each other like it. No matter what anyone says or does. This is a fairly unique site on the Intarweb we have here. Very few other companies of any kind support thier consumer in such a way as this. Whether it is less of a resource to you now or not, it is still a billion times more effective than any other site out there. This is a community bonded by not only Polk Audio and thier products but a serious love of audio and the many related displines and hobbies surrounding it. We should be looking out for each other and helping each other out. We are a club and that is what clubs do. We don't need to lynch people but keeping an eye out for a good deal or a poor salesman/buyer is very much appreciated along with all the advice and basic comraderie that can be found here.

    So take a step back realize that even with all the bad stuff that has been happening here lately, there are still far too many blessings this place offers for me to be able to count using all the extremties of my body!

    Suck it up, stop crying. If things aren't the way you think they should be or want them to be then work to change them. Don't run away like a scared little girl.
    Expert Moron Extraordinaire

    You're just jealous 'cause the voices don't talk to you!
  • Demiurge
    Demiurge Posts: 10,874
    edited April 2004
    Try heeding to your own advice! :rolleyes:
  • bullwinkle1968
    bullwinkle1968 Posts: 142
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by Jstas
    Simple rule to follow folks. If you are angry about a post from someone else and you are heated and ready to respond with a flaming pile of poo just stop and think "Would I say/do this to this guy/girl if I was face to face with them?" If you have any inkling of a doubt or hesitation towards no then either find a different/nicer way to say it or don't say it at all.

    No need for a flame forum if people would just give some common respect and courtesy to thier fellow man and stop acting like such a "big man" and so on and so forth. Some of us may have that kind of attitude for real and they are secure enough in themselves to honestly say what they feel or think about a situation. That is fine and dandy because you know what? It takes all kinds. What those who are that way should remember is that not everyone can appreciate that kind of approach and to use discretion.

    We are all human and we will all lose it some time. If you are in a heated argument with someone, continually taunting them even after they have become livid with you is not the way to go about doing things. Taunting people for sport is just plain pathetic and sadistic. For those that have harsh tempers, learn to count to ten and walk away. The thing everyone should remember is that we all have a breaking point. If you are going to push someone to thier breaking point for whatever reason then you must be fully prepared for all consequences. If you don't like getting banned or chastised by your fellow members or laughed at and such then don't go there and do the best you can to stay away from that point.

    Last point and then I will shut up. Laughing at people and berating them just because you don't like them or had a bad experience with them is not going to do you or anyone else any good. If you have something to say, make your point and walk away. This isn't grade school playground. There is no need to pick on any one person for anything. Sometimes people can do some seriously stupid and/or disrespectful things but harping about it to no end only makes you stay angry and alienates someone who may have made a mistake and doesn't realize it because the rage caused by thier anger is clouding thier judgement.

    We're all human, people. We are all equals, try to treat each other like it. No matter what anyone says or does. This is a fairly unique site on the Intarweb we have here. Very few other companies of any kind support thier consumer in such a way as this. Whether it is less of a resource to you now or not, it is still a billion times more effective than any other site out there. This is a community bonded by not only Polk Audio and thier products but a serious love of audio and the many related displines and hobbies surrounding it. We should be looking out for each other and helping each other out. We are a club and that is what clubs do. We don't need to lynch people but keeping an eye out for a good deal or a poor salesman/buyer is very much appreciated along with all the advice and basic comraderie that can be found here.

    So take a step back realize that even with all the bad stuff that has been happening here lately, there are still far too many blessings this place offers for me to be able to count using all the extremties of my body!

    Suck it up, stop crying. If things aren't the way you think they should be or want them to be then work to change them. Don't run away like a scared little girl.

    AMEN TO THAT AND GOD BLESS EVERYONE MAY MY THOUGHT AND PRAYERS BE WITH YOU ALL. ( and i am not being sarcastic i went to my pastor today and went threw a confessional just after my grandmothers burial and he told me i did the right thing by aplogiseing and if i apologised god would forgive me so even if you all canno forgive me i know in my heart that i have ben forgivein by my lord jesus christ.

    my prayers and thoughts go out to you all in this forum ad i hope you all repent tonight and ask the lord for forgiveness.

    thank you
    and god bless
  • Frank Z
    Frank Z Posts: 5,860
    edited April 2004
    Sure hope you printed out the thread in question so you could get the maximum amount of forgiveness available.

    There's nothing for you here, time to catch the short bus!
    9/11 - WE WILL NEVER FORGET!! (<---<<click)
    2005-06 Club Polk Football Pool Champion!! :D
  • Jstas
    Jstas Posts: 14,842
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by Demiurge
    Try heeding to your own advice! :rolleyes:

    Hey! Alright! Thanks for giving us all an example of what NOT to do.
    Expert Moron Extraordinaire

    You're just jealous 'cause the voices don't talk to you!
  • pixiedave
    pixiedave Posts: 227
    edited April 2004
    15 members and 70 posts in less than 12 hours, and were having fun over here!
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  • dorokusai
    dorokusai Posts: 25,577
    edited April 2004
    Yea we know BW, you were so victimized by the forum's attempt at helping you at every turn right? It turned ugly, because of your actions, it's a fact...don't shoot the messenger, just read the message.

    I find it thought provoking how a complete meltdown warrants retribution, based on an "I am sorry" comment. WWJD right?

    Constructive criticism is countered by racist slurs, threats and potential internet attacks...and it's ok, he said "I am sorry". Awww, isn't that so nice of that individual?

    And not just that single flea market thread....Noooooo, someone seems a little "loose" in the other two main authored threads. Read, it's that simple. But it's ok....he said he apologizes....damn I must've missed that good brotherhood feeling huh? Yea, ole Doro, who does nothing for the forum...just posts crap eh?

    Look, BW, complain about all you wish to complain about, it is your right to do so. You have taken a conspiracy stance on something that just simply isn't about you.

    This forum is about Polk Insanity and all it's lovers', and I don't see you falling over yourself to help anyone but yourself. Dropped a tidbit into a question lately? Maybe said hello to a new member? Nah, just self interest, self preservation, self inflicted, selfish.

    Noone was trying to demoralize you in any way, do you think I rolled in here at post #1 and had godlike revelations? NO, I was clueless essentially. If it wasn't for this forum, I wouldnt know a damn thing. If it wasn't for many member's assistance, I wouldn't own some of the cool stuff that I do currently. This is a give and take area, relax....it looks as though you are chilled out now, but the victim card will expire at some point.

    Crying? Hmmmm, only one member has been "crying" lately.
    CTC BBQ Amplifier, Sonic Frontiers Line3 Pre-Amplifier and Wadia 581 SACD player. Speakers? Always changing but for now, Mission Argonauts I picked up for $50 bucks, mint.
  • pixiedave
    pixiedave Posts: 227
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by dorokusai
    Yea we know BW, you were so victimized by the forum's attempt at helping you at every turn right? It turned ugly, because of your actions, it's a fact...don't shoot the messenger, just read the message.

    I find it thought provoking how a complete meltdown warrants retribution, based on an "I am sorry" comment. WWJD right?

    Constructive criticism is countered by racist slurs, threats and potential internet attacks...and it's ok, he said "I am sorry". Awww, isn't that so nice of that individual?

    And not just that single flea market thread....Noooooo, someone seems a little "loose" in the other two main authored threads. Read, it's that simple. But it's ok....he said he apologizes....damn I must've missed that good brotherhood feeling huh? Yea, ole Doro, who does nothing for the forum...just posts crap eh?

    Look, BW, complain about all you wish to complain about, it is your right to do so. You have taken a conspiracy stance on something that just simply isn't about you.

    This forum is about Polk Insanity and all it's lovers', and I don't see you falling over yourself to help anyone but yourself. Dropped a tidbit into a question lately? Maybe said hello to a new member? Nah, just self interest, self preservation, self inflicted, selfish.

    Noone was trying to demoralize you in any way, do you think I rolled in here at post #1 and had godlike revelations? NO, I was clueless essentially. If it wasn't for this forum, I wouldnt know a damn thing. If it wasn't for many member's assistance, I wouldn't own some of the cool stuff that I do currently. This is a give and take area, relax....it looks as though you are chilled out now, and the victim card will expire at some point.

    Crying? Hmmmm, only one member has been "crying" lately.
    sent you a pm dorokusai
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  • RuSsMaN
    RuSsMaN Posts: 17,986
    edited April 2004
    Doesn't confession usually involve a priest?

    Coocoo for Cocoa Puffs fellas, to the enth degree.

    I sent all you guys a PM, check it out! HILARIOUS!
    Check your lips at the door woman. Shake your hips like battleships. Yeah, all the white girls trip when I sing at Sunday service.
  • VR3
    VR3 Posts: 28,777
    edited April 2004
    I didnt get one.......

    I feel left out.....................:D
    - Not Tom ::::::: Any system can play Diana Krall. Only the best can play Limp Bizkit.
  • bullwinkle1968
    bullwinkle1968 Posts: 142
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by RuSsMaN
    Doesn't confession usually involve a priest?

    Coocoo for Cocoa Puffs fellas, to the enth degree.

    I sent all you guys a PM, check it out! HILARIOUS!

    priest is roman catholic

    pastor or father is regular catholic

    look it up
  • VR3
    VR3 Posts: 28,777
    edited April 2004
    Dictionary.com

    Pastor -

    A Christian minister or priest having spiritual charge over a congregation or other group.
    A layperson having spiritual charge over a person or group.
    A shepherd
    - Not Tom ::::::: Any system can play Diana Krall. Only the best can play Limp Bizkit.
  • VR3
    VR3 Posts: 28,777
    edited April 2004
    Man Russ........

    That PM you sent is hilarious dude........where did you get that? LOL
    - Not Tom ::::::: Any system can play Diana Krall. Only the best can play Limp Bizkit.
  • pixiedave
    pixiedave Posts: 227
    edited April 2004
    Russ nice pm im howling true so true
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  • bullwinkle1968
    bullwinkle1968 Posts: 142
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by pixiedave
    sent you a pm dorokusai

    but what you do not understand is yes i made mistakes and i would love to be part of this forum but i am being accused of something i did not do.(frank z) anyone could have done that but becasue i was the first one to say those words you automatically point it at me.

    i tried to make amends. i would greet a newbie if i new when one joined. i wold help if i could if i new if someone needed the help but ou all get to them before i do so i a not going to sa anything and be wrong and look like an arse.

    you just do not understand where i am coming from. i even went to frank z and apologised in a pm even though i did not do it and i am still the arse.

    you tell me what do i have to do to besides leave and go away to get you all to give me one more chance.

    how would ou feel if yo were accused of something you did not do or how about being accused of something really dipicable and say just to get simpithy that my grandmother died and being called a liar.

    how would you feel if you were aliented by everyone o this board becasue of some rude comments that you apologised for and no one is wiling to give yo the benifit of the doubt.

    i have already made my peace my god so in other words if you are not going to forgive my actions or anyoe else then the time will come that you will be judge by god all mighty and the lord jesus christ.

    amen and god bless
  • RuSsMaN
    RuSsMaN Posts: 17,986
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by pixiedave
    Russ nice pm im howling true so true

    It's amazing how well it fits the current situation, no?

    I'm STILL laughing my **** off.

    Cheers,
    Russ
    Check your lips at the door woman. Shake your hips like battleships. Yeah, all the white girls trip when I sing at Sunday service.
  • pixiedave
    pixiedave Posts: 227
    edited April 2004
    Originally posted by RuSsMaN
    It's amazing how well it fits the current situation, no?

    I'm STILL laughing my **** off.

    Cheers,
    Russ
    art imitates life


    BW never apologise for something you duid not do. It is classic guilt behavior, and make yoy look guilty. You dug your own hole lined in shite, now lay in it!
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