If you love someone

jon1redleg
jon1redleg Posts: 242
edited March 2014 in The Clubhouse
If you love someone set them free if they come
Back it's ment to be!
As some if you may know my life was turned upside
down when my wife decided to leave and filed for
divorce.
It's been a year of living apart which took a toll
on the kids and myself, 15 years couldn't just
end this way I was crushed.
In my heart I thought don't do this , wait she will
Come back because this doesn't feel right
I talked with family and friends and
Most of all prayed !
Well the divorce is over and it ended in a
a way that I prayed so hard for and lost
many nights if sleep over.
She came back! The divorce has been dismissed
as of this morninig.
We are back together and happy, we know that
We have things to work out but I have a good
Feeling about this.
The kids are happy and doing well, to me that's
The most important thing. They are the ones
That suffer the most.
So in closing I would like I thank you all
For being friends and the support.
Thank you and God bless.
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  • nooshinjohn
    nooshinjohn Posts: 25,465
    edited March 2014
    I am so happy to know all worked out well. I knew it could if you wanted it to, but know that every moment of every day, you will need to make certain the past does not creep into the future. God bless and CONGRATS!!!

    I would think about getting the family on a vacation ASAP and start building some new memories
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  • jon1redleg
    jon1redleg Posts: 242
    edited March 2014
    nooshinjohn wrote: »
    I am so happy to know all worked out well. I knew it could if you wanted it to, but know that every moment of every day, you will need to make certain the past does not creep into the future. God bless and CONGRATS!!!

    I would think about getting the family on a vacation ASAP and start building some new memories

    Thanks nooshinjohn , you were ther for me.
    Camping trips are being scheduled as we speak.
    And this summer we are planning a get away.
    The house has been painted and re arraigned for
    A fresh start.
    Prayers every night at supper as a family
    And movie nights.
    Now that things are done with house it's date
    Nights with the wife.
    Day by day my friend is how I'll take it!
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  • Dennis Gardner
    Dennis Gardner Posts: 4,861
    edited March 2014
    One step at a time, but never take a step for granted........
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    edited March 2014
    Good for you buddy, glad things are looking better.
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  • B Run
    B Run Posts: 1,888
    edited March 2014
    Congrats that's good to hear!
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  • boston1450
    boston1450 Posts: 7,676
    edited March 2014
    Great news jon, you may find starting out again may be better.. Ya cant change the past-but ya can change the future.. I just dont say that-i live that too.. Randy
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  • txcoastal1
    txcoastal1 Posts: 13,336
    edited March 2014
    Glad both you birds flew back to the nest
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  • EndersShadow
    EndersShadow Posts: 17,596
    edited March 2014
    Jon

    Glad to hear this news. Give me a shout if I can help with anything.
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  • Toolfan66
    Toolfan66 Posts: 17,337
    edited March 2014
    Great News!!

    Congrats to the both of you.

    It takes work on to make a relationship/marriage work, me and my wife had our tough times but as we have worked out the bad times our marriage has been the best for us the last 3 to 4 years. I wouldn't change it for nothing..
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  • jon1redleg
    jon1redleg Posts: 242
    edited March 2014
    EndersShadow wrote: »
    Jon

    Glad to hear this news. Give me a shout if I can help with anything.

    Thanks EnderShadow, I'll be just south of
    Indy on 4/6 my oldest has a soccer game
    With ST. Frances lady storm. And then again
    I'll be at Franklin township on 4/27 for yet another
    Game.
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  • EndersShadow
    EndersShadow Posts: 17,596
    edited March 2014
    jon1redleg wrote: »
    Thanks EnderShadow, I'll be just south of
    Indy on 4/6 my oldest has a soccer game
    With ST. Frances lady storm. And then again
    I'll be at Franklin township on 4/27 for yet another
    Game.

    Cool man! 4/6 I am getting ready for my trip to Bloomington Illinois. 4/27 I might have free time bit would need to check.

    Once I get all setup and dialed in I wanna have a GTG and your welcome to attend....
    "....not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted." William Bruce Cameron, Informal Sociology: A Casual Introduction to Sociological Thinking (1963)
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  • scottyboy76
    scottyboy76 Posts: 2,905
    edited March 2014
    God bless, all of you, life is so short,and to be able to bring it back like you did, you obviously have a lot to hang onto.

    I would guess the percentage of divorces that end up well, with the family still together has to be small, you guys work at it, and try to cherish every day.

    God bless, god bless, god bless.
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  • hochpt21
    hochpt21 Posts: 5,423
    edited March 2014
    Simply awesome.
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