Update on me

jon1redleg
jon1redleg Posts: 242
edited June 2013 in The Clubhouse
I am doing fine, as fine can be.
As for as my marriage not so good, it will be over
very soon.
We are going to keep this on the clean side for the kids as
sake and for ours. She says she wants nothing
of mine nor the house. She has found a place
to go and has even found a new job.

I am sad but at ease, I have tried to work things out
but to no use.

Thanks you all for your posts and I really owe
A lot to a great member in this great club, he has
Been my rock through this, so thank you!

I will turn to you all for support in future.


God bless you all.
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  • Oldfatdogs
    Oldfatdogs Posts: 1,874
    edited June 2013
    Hang in there Jon,it does gets better.
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  • custopper30
    custopper30 Posts: 252
    edited June 2013
    Best of luck with you. Let us know if you need anything
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  • chefkungfu
    chefkungfu Posts: 638
    edited June 2013
    I'm so sorry you have go through this.
    I wish you the best of luck, and your kids as well! Keep your chin up, and if you need to talk, just drop us a line.
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  • headrott
    headrott Posts: 5,496
    edited June 2013
    I'm very sorry to hear things couldn't be worked out. It's very sad when this is the case. I'll be praying for you and your family Jon. Keep your spirit up, and listen to some of your favorite music; it always helps.
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  • PSOVLSK
    PSOVLSK Posts: 5,201
    edited June 2013
    The best advice I can offer is my signature. Stinks for sure, but make the best of it (easy for me to say). Praying for you and especially your kids. Seems as though you are both looking out for them and that is a blessing.
    Things work out best for those who make the best of the way things work out.-John Wooden
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  • zingo
    zingo Posts: 11,258
    edited June 2013
    Prayers from my family to yours.
    Jake
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  • Polkersince85
    Polkersince85 Posts: 2,883
    edited June 2013
    A lot of us have gone through it. You will survive. Give it time and be the rock for the kids.
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  • halo71
    halo71 Posts: 4,602
    edited June 2013
    Sorry to hear that. Things may seem tough right now. But trust me, it does get better! Takes some time but it does. Also as Ken pointed out. Be there for the kids as much as you possibly can. I found that talking to friends and staying busy helped a lot in the beginning. Then things evened out later and life was good again.
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  • zane77
    zane77 Posts: 1,696
    edited June 2013
    Like everone else said, a lot of us have been through this and it is not easy at first. Be solid for the kids and life will work things out and there is light on the horizon.
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  • cnh
    cnh Posts: 13,284
    edited June 2013
    You'll be fine. It's really more about the "kids" now. Unfortunately, most adults are kids themselves, hence divorces, remarriages, separations and the like are the norm in this land. Life is always moving, change is inevitable until the end and then...who really knows?

    Good Luck.

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  • nooshinjohn
    nooshinjohn Posts: 25,399
    edited June 2013
    I have been praying for you and your family from the day I first learned of what has been happening. I know it's rough, but I also know you are going to be just fine...

    Things have a way of working themselves out and usually for the better if you are looking for the good in things.
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  • F1nut
    F1nut Posts: 50,525
    edited June 2013
    "Love Stinks"
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  • boston1450
    boston1450 Posts: 7,630
    edited June 2013
    One day at a time. Thats all we can do. Things do get better. It all takes time. Take care of yourself so your healthy for your kids and things will fall in place
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  • woodhead 2
    woodhead 2 Posts: 367
    edited June 2013
    Good luck. Life does go one. One door closes, and another opens.
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  • drumminman
    drumminman Posts: 3,396
    edited June 2013
    Time does heal all wounds. Best advice I ever heard re: divorce with kids involved is never say a disparaging word about your ex to/ in front of the kids. That way they don't have to get caught in the middle and choose sides. They're pretty smart and eventually they'll figure things out.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    edited June 2013
    Best wishes buddy, I know it's a tough time but you WILL get thru it.
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