Little debbies cancer has returned

scottyboy76
scottyboy76 Posts: 2,905
edited October 2011 in The Clubhouse
My precious angel, debbie, my wife, my rock, my best friend, my saviour in this world, has once again found she must face breast cancer.

This will be 4 times she has heard those words.

I hate to keep going to the well here, but please pray, send good thoughts, meditate, or whatever you feel is appropriate, I truly believe in good people concentrating goodwill.

All 4feet 4 inches, and 89 pounds of deb are granite, she was born with terrible birth defects which keeps most babys from ever reaching 10 years old.

Her life has been one medical emergency, procedure, and treatment after another.

The most amazing thing, she is pure love, the most guile free, caring person i have ever met, although bitterness and envy of others good fortune would be understandable.

They will be letting us know tues. what type and how advanced this cancer is.

Soon a 3 hour pet scan will be performed to see if it has spread, that will be a huge factor.

I found this lump under her arm as we lay at night and i would massage her back and neck, I tell you this to encourage you and your significant other to be fastidious about breast exams for women and testicular checks for men. It sounds trite but early detection is so important.

And one more thing, be good to each other, now, and if some little treat, or special date, or purchase for each other keeps getting pushed to the back of the to do list and it sorta nags at you, you know, that little voice, listen, and act on it, something like this changes everything. do the little things for each other.

Thank you in advance, and I will try to keep you updated, i know there are special folks here and we need you.
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  • falconcry72
    falconcry72 Posts: 3,580
    edited October 2011
    I'm sorry to hear the news. She beat it 3 times, she can beat it a 4th.

    Good thoughts sent.
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  • Ron-P
    Ron-P Posts: 8,516
    edited October 2011
    So sorry to hear bro. Prayers sent!
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  • Fireman32
    Fireman32 Posts: 4,845
    edited October 2011
    Here's hoping for the best. If she beat it 3 times she can beat it a 4th.
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  • halo71
    halo71 Posts: 4,602
    edited October 2011
    Sorry to hear this news Scott! Thoughts are with you.
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  • Sherardp
    Sherardp Posts: 8,038
    edited October 2011
    Sorry to hear bro, Prayers and thoughts sent. Tell her to stay strong as she has in the past. If there is anything you need, say so. Anything to cheer her up or whatever you can think of give me a shout.
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  • apc
    apc Posts: 779
    edited October 2011
    As a cancer survivor, I can say that your support structure is key. As with the first times, be strong and supportive and tell others to be as well. Last thing she needs is a negative thought.

    Fight the good fight and stay strong. Best thoughts and prayer sent.
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  • stuwee
    stuwee Posts: 1,508
    edited October 2011
    I'm also a cancer survivor, and thoughts and prayers are sent from sunny AZ to Deb, the family and to you Scott, your words in the last paragraphs were very touching, and very true, you may have saved a life today, keep us updated, and the candle is lit down here for her and others in the same situation.
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  • agfrost
    agfrost Posts: 2,427
    edited October 2011
    You are both in my prayers.


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  • cnh
    cnh Posts: 13,284
    edited October 2011
    Really sorry to hear that! Sounds like she's a real fighter though. Hope she beats this one as well. I completely sympathize, my family has been through a lot of loss the last two years. Best wishes and thoughts for a complete and 'final' recovery!

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  • cfrizz
    cfrizz Posts: 13,415
    edited October 2011
    Good thoughts sent your way. Best of luck.
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  • HTguru1982
    HTguru1982 Posts: 1,066
    edited October 2011
    Best of luck to both of you. She beat it before, she'll beat it again.
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  • danger boy
    danger boy Posts: 15,722
    edited October 2011
    you be Debbie's rock during her treatment.. and know that you guys can beat it together.. Sending healing prayers your way..
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  • gudnoyez
    gudnoyez Posts: 8,114
    edited October 2011
    So sorry to here about your wifes misfortunes, sounds like she is quite the fighter, I pray that she has another chance to win round four, I hope she does. I wish you both the best.
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  • TECHNOKID
    TECHNOKID Posts: 4,298
    edited October 2011
    Sorry to hear about your trial. Best thoughts and prayers sent to you and your little Debbie.
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  • starkiller
    starkiller Posts: 2,723
    edited October 2011
    Really sorry to hear that! But know that my wife and I will be thinking of the two of you from here in Seattle...let us know if we can do anything for the two of you!!
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  • BeefJerky
    BeefJerky Posts: 1,320
    edited October 2011
    I am so sorry to hear about that. However, it really does seem like Debbie is a fighter, so I'm sure she will make it through this ordeal just like she did previously!
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  • deronb1
    deronb1 Posts: 5,021
    edited October 2011
    Prayers and positive energy from Dayton, Ohio.
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  • steveinaz
    steveinaz Posts: 19,538
    edited October 2011
    God Bless, and keep the faith.
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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 7,658
    edited October 2011
    Positive energy and healing thoughts to you both!
    Take care!
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  • disneyjoe7
    disneyjoe7 Posts: 11,435
    edited October 2011
    Stay Strong, Stay Positive, in you're both in my prayers.

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  • Dawgfish
    Dawgfish Posts: 2,554
    edited October 2011
    I'm really sorry to hear that. Like the others have said, stay positive. She's beaten in before, she can and will do it again. Debbie and your family will be in my prayers.
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  • Oldfatdogs
    Oldfatdogs Posts: 1,874
    edited October 2011
    Scotty Good thoughts and prayers sent your way.Take good care of your girl. Dan
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  • dee1949
    dee1949 Posts: 1,425
    edited October 2011
    ...Positive THOUGHTS her way ! Keep the faith. She sounds like a FIGHTER.
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  • janmike
    janmike Posts: 6,146
    edited October 2011
    Good thoughts and prayers sent you way.
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  • ESavinon
    ESavinon Posts: 3,066
    edited October 2011
    Thoughts and prayers sent.
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  • nightrider7986
    nightrider7986 Posts: 2
    edited October 2011
    Our prayers are with you. Mine is about 5' right now
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  • schwarcw
    schwarcw Posts: 7,335
    edited October 2011
    I am sorry to hear this disturburbing news. My prayers go out to Debbie and you in this time of uncertainty. God Bless!
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  • dorokusai
    dorokusai Posts: 25,577
    edited October 2011
    I would imagine that by now, cancer is her ****. It doesn't stand a chance so tell her to start wrapping the hands and get those boxing gloves on again...screw the headgear.
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