Been unplugged quite a while just needed to vent out

doggie750

Hello Polks
My son just had a surgery last Thursday (a week ago) ...triple surgery.
Ears (placed tube due to fluid, Nose due to enlarged adenoid, and throat due to tonsillitis...) He's in pain regularly. Thank God for the codeine. As to some of you know, my son had episodes of seizures in the past and hopefully these factors would lessens the unforeseen attacks.

This is really making me cry...Just got a heavy cross BRO
Sometimes I wonder Why such a heavy cross not just on me but also on my son. I would rather carry his cross than see him like this. he's been through a lot. He's only 5. Sorry guys, just needed to vent out.

Erik Tracy

I feel ya - got two boys of my own (12 and 14) - they are great kids!

I guess I'm blessed in that we've only had to deal with a couple of broken bones, bad colds, the usual.

Anytime your child is in pain - as a parent you would gladly take it on for their relief and spare them another moment of pain.

Vent all you want....we gotcha back.

nooshinjohn

My prayers for the better health and quick recovery of your son, and for you as well. Hopefully the two of you can get back to the father/son stuff in short order.


John

dkg999

Hang in there. Your family is in my prayers.

Knucklehead

Sucks big time...thoughts and prayers for you, your Son and family.

David

skipf

My two year old niece was having seizures so they put tubes in her ears. No more seizures. I hope your son has the same results.

bruss

best wishes and hang in there. My son had the ears and adnoids done and they bounce back pretty fast.

audiobliss

I really hate to hear your son is going through that. I can only imagine having to stand back and watch it. I'll definitely be praying him and yourself.

Amherst

Wishes and prayers for the fastest most complete recovery for your child.
No apology for "venting" necessary, it is needed therapy. My son went through a surgery three weeks ago that turned out cancerous, why children I just don't understand. Good luck to you and your family.

[Deleted User]

Hello,
I hope your son recovers quickly.
Take care, Ken

Demiurge

Good luck to you both.

cstmar01

hope for a speedy recovery for your son and that he is no longer in pain.

cfrizz

Best wishes for a speedy recovery & the end to all the problems.

Fireman32

Hope for a speedy recovery.

NotaSuv

Prayers your way for a quick recovery

hearingimpared

My prayers and my families prayers go up for you and your little boy.

I know how painful those surgeries can be. As a child had three surgeries on my ear, and also three on my nose. Very painful I really feel for you boy. As a matter of fact the pain was so severe that they were giving me shots of demerol which in themselves when administered were very painful.

It's good that he's doing well with codiene as that is far less addictive than the opiates and won't make him as dopey.

nedh84

When I was around 10 I somehow developed an auto-immune disease that nearly killed me. I was too young to understand what was happening I just remember being endless pain on certain nights. I couldn't move or do anything otherwise my body would feel like fire.

15 years later and I'm doing awesome. Great job, hiking to Mt. Whitney, girls, speakers, all the good stuff. Hang in there. We can all overcome great obstacles. Your son will grow up tough.

Pycroft

Best of luck! Hopefully the surgeries will do some good!

James

devani

good luck to you and your son...my prayers are with you..

reeltrouble1

God Bless your boy and give you strength.

RT1

george daniel

Hang in,,it'll get better.God bless.

ben62670

Prayers sent.
Ben

greyford1979

Best wishes and prayers for your son's speedy recovery!

Cunningstunter

Mate thats not good to hear.......

Its funny hey, no matter how many ppl tell you how many times BEFORE you have kids just HOW much they change your life, it's not until you become a parent that you even begin to realise just HOW much of an effect they have on you.

For instance, reading this thread prior to having my own kids I may not have thought much about it (which maybe says something about me doh) but now, I read this and it makes feel deeply for you. We had a really big scare with our 2nd being diagnosed with Cystic fibrosis (pre birth) and it was THE hardest 6 months of my life and I grew up in family that faced some pretty hard times itself.

Same with reading papers, not so long ago I saw a photo of a war torn area (somewhere in africa) and the front page pic was full of kids, with empty eyes, no hope and as I was eating my lunch, I am not ashamed to admit that I shed a tear. At the same time realising how lucky we all have it and that things like cars, stereos etc pale into insignificance when you have problems with your kids or see the seemingly insurmountable problems of the world in general esp when it affects innocent children.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your wife and your son. It's no consolidation at all however I am a strong believer that the things we are dealt with at various stages of our lives are to prepare us for the future and even if you don't believe that as such, if nothing gives us character and strength. I realise it's easy for me to say that not having to go through what you are but I always try and look on the brighter side of things....'every cloud' cliches and all that.

All the best!

engtaz

prayers sent.

Hawkeye

Go ahead. Cry or rant, do anything you need to do to release the stress your under. To deny these emotions is to deny your humanity. There is nothing more painful for a parent to see our child(ren) in any pain.

My daughter had the same operations at age seven. She did not have seizures, but was always sick and it made her a very unhappy little girl. She had her's at the Kings Daughters Childrens Hospital in Norfolk, VA. She was in for three days and my wife and I rotated shifts at the hospital and home since my daughter has a twin brother.

Today she is beautiful 28 year old woman. I wish you and yours the peace you need at this time.

Gordon

TECHNOKID

reeltrouble1 wrote: »

God Bless your boy and give you strength.

RT1

doggie750, I feel for you big time Like mentioned above by Erik Tracy, I only went trough the usual stuff and trials. I think broken bones was the most and still I was in greather pain having my boys going through this than if I went trhough it my self. Both of my sons are in their mid 20s now and I often still worry about them not counting that I also keep a close eye on the 2 grandsons !

My prayers are with your son and you and your family big time. God's will is sometime hard to understand but there's always a purpose. Keep the faith, may God provide you the strenght to go trhough the hardship. Your son needs your strenght....

God Bless !
TK

Sherardp

prayers sent to the little guy and you bro. Hoping things get better.

cambir

Sorry to hear about your son. I have 2 kids under the age of 4 and can imagine how painful that must be for you and your family. If that's not a reason to vent, I don't know what is. Comfort and recovery wishes sent your way...

j allen

Apologies aren't necessary. Just try to stay strong; he's probably scared, and having you there for him likely does a world of good. Best wishes for the recovery.

hearingimpared

Talk about crying. When my 26 year old was a toddler, he was running around in circles in my sister-in-law's den. There was a brick fireplace and he fell and landed smack on his nose on the edge of the brick. While in the hospital, they were putting novocaine needles and stitching the bridge of his nose. He didn't say a word but when I saw that little lower lip of his stick out, I just broke down into tears. He was a brave a little dude and I think I felt more pain the he did. He has a scar on the bridge of nose to this day and evertime I see him my eyes go right to the scar and I relive the pain again.

I think we all would rather go through the pain then have our children do so . . . let it out Bro!